Just talk to him. Its not something to put off. Putting it off is a betrayal of trust. Pregnancy is a super serious situation that must be talked about immediately.
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A card that says "No condom? No pill? Lots of sex? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. We have won A BABY!!"
There’s an axiom by Obgyns that women become parents after getting pregnant, men after labor. So most likely he will come around during pregnancy. I doubt you’ll have to wait til labor.
Yes. We really hadn't decided one way or another. Before I got pregnant I was pretty indifferent regarding having more kids. However, once I found out (and got over the initial shock) and really thought about it I found out I really wanted to have the kid. I'm just really nervous about whether or not he'll feel the same way. He very well may, but he may not. My worst fear is he'll ask me to get an abortion (again, don't know if he will, but I'm afraid he might)
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Just talk to him. Its not something to put off. Putting it off is a betrayal of trust. Pregnancy is a super serious situation that must be talked about immediately.
A card that says "No condom? No pill? Lots of sex? Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. We have won A BABY!!"
😂😂😂 MHO 🏆
Show him your post you just posted here and let him read it.
Erm... Best not to show him that you told internet strangers before him.
Oh yeah, hide some more 🙄
No, just tell him straight, not by showing him that you told strangers first.
There’s an axiom by Obgyns that women become parents after getting pregnant, men after labor. So most likely he will come around during pregnancy. I doubt you’ll have to wait til labor.
Just go up to him and ask him what his favourite names are for babies.
Just tell him how he would feel about a new bundle coming into his life?
Tell him immediately, just have an open mature conversation about it all.
Hey babe, I'm pregnant! If he's a good guy, he'll be ecstatic. Good luck on the baby.
Well, you tell him. Immediately. What's the alternative? Hiding it until he can't choose if he wants it or not?
Gently but honestly. It will be a surprise for him, but he'll understand.
tell him now, it doesn't matter if he's ready or not this is gonna happen anyway
just tell him you have big news and then say it. he will be flabbergasted but that's ok
Advice 1:
Tell him it's not his child and abort.
And close this matter here.
Start over!
Advice 2:
Ask him to marry you or pay you child support.
Yeah... I don't want an abortion. I don't know where to move with him from here, but I'm pretty sure it's not that
Straight out, straight up and straight away.
You just have to tell him, But try telling him when he is in a good mood.
Just explain what happen.
Why would you not use condoms
Tell him, the sooner the better.
Did you two discuss having children before hand?
Yes. We really hadn't decided one way or another. Before I got pregnant I was pretty indifferent regarding having more kids. However, once I found out (and got over the initial shock) and really thought about it I found out I really wanted to have the kid. I'm just really nervous about whether or not he'll feel the same way. He very well may, but he may not. My worst fear is he'll ask me to get an abortion (again, don't know if he will, but I'm afraid he might)
I say your gonna have tell him straight up.