Betrayed no. But i wouldn't go back out with them again. Once you touch another man we over, period. doesn't matter the relationship status.
Thats why i always think that saying is dumb "let her free and if she comes back she's yours" something like that. Fucking weird asf who in their right mind would do that?
I mean you can feel betrayed it's normal to feel like that when you break up with someone you still have feelings for. But you also have to realize that the person you broken up with is fair game and can do whatever they want since y'all are now going separate ways. Feeling betrayed is okay, just don't act upon it and judge or shame the other person as they didn't really do anything wrong.
I think anyone with such a small mind that can sleep with anyone days after break up is too retarded for my time. I don’t deal with people who have such low standards or people who would just screw anything that moves.
I don’t do the on again off again game. If my ex broke up with me she better have a hell of a reason for me to take her back. And if she broke up again I wouldn’t come back. It’s wrong and unacceptable.
Nope. We are broken up, they are free to do what they want. If I am ending things or if someone is ending things with me, I'm assuming that its the end. Im not going to approach it as a betrayal of my trust or anything.
Yes I would feel betrayed if there’s still visible love there. I feel like couples that are on and off break up as an excuse to talk and sleep with others though.
Flirting is one thing. Im sure we both went out and did that. But sleeping with someone so soon is pathetic. If theyre that “easy”, i’d be glad we broke up
'Guess a lot would depend on the length of time the break up lasted. If we are talking just a few weeks or couple of months then yes there will be issues.
Honestly, all I would feel is the wind coming off that 1000 car freight train that I just jumped out of its path! Yes, I will have a bit of a hole in my heart, but time eases that ache. You move on and try to be more careful in the future.
Same reason as being cheated on sucks... you're sacrificing a particular thing for the benefit of expecting it in return and then it's not returned. It's like being ripped off, if that makes sense.
I'd be a little pissed... I've been cheated on a lot in the past. Before that wouldn't bother me. We've been married for 28+ years now so this is hypothetical... but I'd be pissed but willing to work through it.
It's a bit of a relief to see some of the answers here because I was in a situation like this a few years ago and there are still times that I feel bad for doing it.
On a more serious note, if it was implied that we were going to get back together or at least try, I would not feel happy about him jumping at the first girl he see's
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Betrayed no. But i wouldn't go back out with them again. Once you touch another man we over, period. doesn't matter the relationship status.
Thats why i always think that saying is dumb "let her free and if she comes back she's yours" something like that. Fucking weird asf who in their right mind would do that?
I mean you can feel betrayed it's normal to feel like that when you break up with someone you still have feelings for. But you also have to realize that the person you broken up with is fair game and can do whatever they want since y'all are now going separate ways. Feeling betrayed is okay, just don't act upon it and judge or shame the other person as they didn't really do anything wrong.
I'd lose interest.
The point of a break is to work on yourself and then report back to the person whether or not you want to continue.
Going on a bender hooking up with other folks is a waste of the other persons time.
I think anyone with such a small mind that can sleep with anyone days after break up is too retarded for my time. I don’t deal with people who have such low standards or people who would just screw anything that moves.
I don’t do the on again off again game. If my ex broke up with me she better have a hell of a reason for me to take her back. And if she broke up again I wouldn’t come back. It’s wrong and unacceptable.
Nope. We are broken up, they are free to do what they want. If I am ending things or if someone is ending things with me, I'm assuming that its the end. Im not going to approach it as a betrayal of my trust or anything.
If we broke up, she's free to do whatever she wants... and so am I. Can you please explain to me why I should be upset?
Yes I would feel betrayed if there’s still visible love there. I feel like couples that are on and off break up as an excuse to talk and sleep with others though.
Flirting is one thing. Im sure we both went out and did that. But sleeping with someone so soon is pathetic. If theyre that “easy”, i’d be glad we broke up
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@t-8900 Amen to that king
If I was to break up with someone, then we’d be done for good. So no, I wouldn’t care.
No. You're broken up. What do you mean "at the moment"?
If you still have feelings and want to be together, why did you break up?
LOL!
I never had a girlfriend who DIDN’T do that.
And I’m betting the rent that a LOT of the guys who get all butt-hurt at the mere *thought* of such a thing didn’t either!
'Guess a lot would depend on the length of time the break up lasted. If we are talking just a few weeks or couple of months then yes there will be issues.
had that happen to me, that was it over 100% never going back time.
if they got over you that easy then you obviously didn't mean that much to them.
Honestly, all I would feel is the wind coming off that 1000 car freight train that I just jumped out of its path! Yes, I will have a bit of a hole in my heart, but time eases that ache. You move on and try to be more careful in the future.
Same reason as being cheated on sucks... you're sacrificing a particular thing for the benefit of expecting it in return and then it's not returned. It's like being ripped off, if that makes sense.
I'd be a little pissed...
I've been cheated on a lot in the past. Before that wouldn't bother me.
We've been married for 28+ years now so this is hypothetical... but I'd be pissed but willing to work through it.
If I separated from someone I wouldn’t have expectations of getting back together. It would be done. You either work or you don’t.
It's a bit of a relief to see some of the answers here because I was in a situation like this a few years ago and there are still times that I feel bad for doing it.
The situation sounds so familiar... but I can't place it...
On a more serious note, if it was implied that we were going to get back together or at least try, I would not feel happy about him jumping at the first girl he see's