I recently opened up to my boyfriend about how I feel that he uses me for things a lot of the times and I don’t always feel loved I just feel like he wants someone to always provide for him and I told him that because since we’ve been together he’s always asked me for money. Even when he has his own. He’s bought me things but never has spent as much on me as I have on him which isn’t really the point because I have given him money without him asking sometimes just because he is my boyfriend and I’m not a stingy person but most times he’s asked and I never denied him. Since we’ve been together for almost two years I’ve given him over $1,000. He literally clocks when my direct deposit hits and will ask me to send him $300-$500 and he always says “I’m not using you. I look out for you when I have money as well.” But not as often as I look out for him. Also when he does have money I never expect him to send or give me money like he expects me to each time I get paid.
Is this one of those scenarios where actions speak louder than words?
