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This new guy I'm seeing constantly thinks I'm cheating? Should I break up with him? (Page 3)
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he doesn’t sound like he trusts you completely. This is a Red flag. The right person won’t accuse you of cheating or assume you’re. You haven’t meet him in real life either but FaceTime, so just be careful. If I was you I wouldn’t date somebody I never meet in person that can be dangerous. your choice whenever you stay or leave.
I know several guys like that. All of them had multiple partners cheat on them in their past. My take is that their insecurity is pretty deep seated and difficult to get past. I don't know about this guy you are dating but he may or may not be worth your time, depending on how hard you are willing to work to earn his trust and help him get past his insecurity. Good luck to you.
In my experience (from friends, not personal) the person who is suspicious and accusative is the one who ends up cheating.
It's only going to get worse. Break up. He's too broken and insecure. His jealousy will get worse because he will be forever suspicious and controlling.
It’s obvious he doesn’t trust you, and it’s causing him to become overly possessive. This is unhealthy behavior, and it’s probably best to leave him. There’s nothing you can do to fix it. He needs to work through his problems.
I stopped reading after long distance... his behavior would be to exhausting for me
yup after long distance my brain went... blah blah blah- let's check the comments.
Exactly 😂
My advice, he needs to heal.
You can't have him track your every movemeither he trusts you or he doesn't. End of!
Based on what you have wrote down, you need to break up with him. You have not given him any signs that you’re a cheater.
Piss him off , he is a WEAK insecure fool , you will become violent..
CUT CLEAN and QUICKLY
Move on those who are accusing are usually the cheaters
If you aren’t then that’s up to you really. I totally understand the frustrations of constantly being accused of something that you legitimately aren’t doing
Maybe try to understand the reason why he got cheated on in the past. Learn from the ex’s side of the story, maybe it’s because he’s doing something that pushes women away. Or maybe he’s being needy. I’d ghost him if I we’re you.
Yes, I can't stand possessive guys. You're not his property. Dump him - and tell him why.
He's hurt and broken, you don't value him enough to deal with it.
Just break up, it is what it is.
You don’t know me so don’t you dare EVER say I don’t value him
I haven’t broken up with him, and I don’t plan to unless it gets unbearable. Consider me going to an Internet forum as a way of seeking help rather than an unfortunate end
If you wanna, break up with him because he's too insecure about being cheated it sure sounds like you value your social life over him.
No need to feel bad, it is what it is.
It's just that you can't relate to how bad women can fuck up men to where they never trust anyone ever again.
I completely understand and I feel horrible for him hurting - and please don’t think I want to break up with him. Like I’d feel absolutely awful if I did that!! I just don’t know how to help him 😞 and I hate hurting him 🥺
He’s definitely already to that point of never trusting anyone again
I guess it's different for you.
I've been cheated before and burt really bad. If I had a cute girlfriend that checked up on me constantly and wanted me with her always, that would be perfect for me.
I want to be wanted and valued, and needed and treated like I'm very important.
The 1st red flag is it's long distance
The 2nd women have a reputation for cheating
3rd dump him if he doesn't have proof
Or change his behavior
Trust is a big thing in relationships.
if he can't trust you then your relationship with him is toxic to you both.
Sit down with him and read this book together.
The book is called "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan
I think it's time to see other people. If he can't stay faithful then he gots ta go. You deserve better
"either tries to poke holes and find evidence in my texts". Can you elaborate on this part? I feel like that could possibly be a red flag.
He might be the one cheating on you. I was in a similar situation, and the same thing was done to me.