I grew up as am "Army Brat" my father was a carreer Army Officer, so every 2 or 4 years, we moved to another "Duty Station" so getting ghosted was a way of life... and ghosting was too.. when you are told to move... you move.
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blocked them and moved on. No use in crying over spilt milk and life goes on. I know it’s easier said than done but if you read books, go out and have some fun with friends/family, focus on on your mental health (meditation), come up with a beauty regimen and exercise you will eventually realize that whoever left your life was a gift it allows you to find yourself and let others in which may be actually worthwhile.
Yeah and with time you learn that the person was shit lol
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I have, it sucks but you’ll get over it. My closest friend for the last year did it too me before Christmas, she never wished me a happy Christmas and ignored my messages. She ignored until a week afterwards. We talked for a while this year but I feel we have now drifted apart and we don’t speak much now. Some people just aren’t meant too be in your life and you gotta just move on.
I kind of did that to an ex. Just after dating 3 weeks, she started talking about moving in together and getting married. She had 3 kids and was in the national guard while selling otc drugs on the side. Hell no! Not into that.
I ghost them in everything else. I just looked at myself in the mirror and told myself that they don't deserve you in anyway so let them go they're not worth it at all
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I grew up as am "Army Brat" my father was a carreer Army Officer, so every 2 or 4 years, we moved to another "Duty Station" so getting ghosted was a way of life... and ghosting was too.. when you are told to move... you move.
blocked them and moved on. No use in crying over spilt milk and life goes on. I know it’s easier said than done but if you read books, go out and have some fun with friends/family, focus on on your mental health (meditation), come up with a beauty regimen and exercise you will eventually realize that whoever left your life was a gift it allows you to find yourself and let others in which may be actually worthwhile.
Yeah and with time you learn that the person was shit lol
I have, it sucks but you’ll get over it. My closest friend for the last year did it too me before Christmas, she never wished me a happy Christmas and ignored my messages. She ignored until a week afterwards. We talked for a while this year but I feel we have now drifted apart and we don’t speak much now. Some people just aren’t meant too be in your life and you gotta just move on.
I have. I just block them on everything and go out. If they really have a good reason, they will figure out how to communicate to me
I didn’t know there was a recovery process for people to cope with being ghosted.
I’m not being insensitive, genuinely don’t see a need for this grieving lol
Aww, no what happened? Hard to tell you how to recover without the details
I've never been ghosted. It's usually we have a disagreement and stop talking to each other.
I kind of did that to an ex. Just after dating 3 weeks, she started talking about moving in together and getting married. She had 3 kids and was in the national guard while selling otc drugs on the side. Hell no! Not into that.
Yup, I've been ghosted and ghosted before. Well, time heals everything.
I had. It is hard, but I was able to move on after some months.
It’s happened. I got over it with help from friends.
Yeah and it sucks when you find out that you were probably just a quick going or side piece or someone to just use when it convenient.
I left facebook without saying by to hundreds of people. I have changed my number to avoid a toxic friend.
You just have to convince yourself that some people are just selfish.
It doesn't say anything about you as a person, it's them being dicks.
Yea my ex girlfriend 😭 but in all honesty I deserved it but still hurt 😭
I ghost them in everything else. I just looked at myself in the mirror and told myself that they don't deserve you in anyway so let them go they're not worth it at all
Yes, I've done it to someone I was close to
Sad 🥺
They were raping small children
and the judge lets him off with 90 days in jail and 5 years probation.
But that a democrat judge for you
I been ghosted all the time. All I could do is move on
Yes It's currently happening right now :(
Still feel very sad, I hope the feeling goes away with time
Yes, for 4 years because her boyfriend at the time... I still have insecurities about getting too close to her again