Is it normal to love someone so much that I become their bitch?

[Anonymous]

so im 15 and so is he (im gay) he is the man in the relations, im clingy to him and i would literally cry for days if he broke up with him, I nearly worship him because i love him so much, we have never got in a argument but if we did i would shut up and forgive him, Im like a puppy dog that blindly follows its owner. But im also worried me being this submissive to him is a turn off.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

That is very unhealthy and not normal. You seem very codependent.

[Asker]

i mean i do want to be loved spoiled pampered and protected by him, But i treat him like a king, I would cook and clean for him, when we are older i will get a job to, I would never use his money i would feel to bad.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Okay, and that’s normal in a very submissive role in a relationship,. However what you described in the description is very unhealthy and not something that should be done. You cannot be that dependent on his love or you will lose yourself.

[Anonymous]

I see myself in you. Don't get too attached to anyone. put some distance in between.