Would you cheat with someone if they are appealing enough, and you absolutely knew you wouldn’t get caught?

[Anonymous]

Is their anyone on the planet you would cheat with?

(for example, some people might cheat with a celebrity if given the chance and knowing they wouldn’t get caught. (Unrealistic I know) but I’m pretty sure at least half of people would cheat with least one other person on the planet if given the chance. (Even if they might regret it later)

Honestly, I might

No, I would not

I’m single

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm pretty sure I wouldn't. I've had my chances. When you're a drinker like me spending lots of time in bars, you don't have to be a hunk to find some extremely flirty and attractive tipsy young women here and there. I find I have a habit of instinctually talking about how much I love my wife in those moments, even when I'm intoxicated, and introducing those women to my single guy friends like, "Here, you can have her!"

I would like to think it's because I'm such a noble and ethical person. But I haven't always been in other cases. For example, I'm still struggling to quit drinking even though I know it brings out my inner idiot. If I was a more moral person, I would have quit already.

I think that helps in my case is that I dated around a lot before I found my wife. It was always really exciting to remove a new woman's clothes for the first time, but there was always a lot of work leading up to and after that point. I had enough fun with that already for a lifetime and I no longer think the work is worth it. I only need to look down at my wedding ring to remember I have the best waiting for me at home.

[TransAm85]

This is reassuring.. I've been married almost 9 years and my husband likes to drink, especially weekends. I partied enough in my 20's so it is no longer appealing to me, but he still drinks and I wonder sometimes if he would cheat on me. I looked on his phone a few times, but the only pics I c are transmissions and VIN #'s. He's a mechanic. I really feel better now reading ur reply.

[HighlyVolatile]

@TransAm85 Cheers! I am a software engineer. I also don't have an Instagram account or porno account or any of those things I see people complaining about on here. If my morals are strong enough here, I always saw my ultimate job in this life to protect my wife and family. I even associate my ideas of manliness most to that. To cheat on my wife and hurt her that way, even if she never caught me, would be the worst thing I could possibly ever do. It would be the opposite of protecting her, and one of the biggest ways to fail as I see it as a man.

[hahahmm]

No. But that said, my advice to young guys is.. don't cheat but also don't act like you're married when you're not. Which means, if your girlfriend is not good enough then dump her. Don't keep a relationship going just for the sake of having a relationship.

[anniisa97]

I would never cheat. I can say that in confidence. I've been asked this before and I'll say the same thing again, no celeb is worth ruining something with someone you love. We don't know celebs, they're just normal people who are attractive, they're still strangers to us if we meet them.

Its one thing to fantasise about someone while they're on a screen, and another to want to have sex with them when they are a real person in front of you.

[designer1]

No bc I value myself and see no reason to ruin someone else’s happiness. Even if they weren’t in a happy relationship, to me, there is no excuse to cheat. It says a lot of bad things about urself and about what ur willing to do for attention. If u just want sex, go pick up a single person.

[Asker]

Their is definitely someone else on the planet who you will love more if you get to know them.

[Asker]

Even if you don’t want it to be the case, it’s still true.

[FreyaRed]

No, I wouldn't cheat even if I was 100% sure I don't get caught. This would destroy my personal imagination about relationship I'm in. I can easily live with guilt but I don't like to betray myself. If I cheated, one part would try to like this guy but my logic would say you don't like him because you cheated, if you really liked him you wouldn't.

[NikolasGLT]

It's easy to talk and claim how perfect we all are, and say we will never cheat.
But once you find yourself a person that you connect to emotionally to a certain level, and you know that no matter what happens the truth will never see light. Then most people will cheat, especially if they are right next to that person and the person wants exactly the same thing.

[NikolasGLT]

When people are put in the heat of the moment and they know for a fact that the truth will not see the light. It only comforts them to do it, they lose control of themselves no matter how much control they think they have over themselves.
When they are put next to the person they want or are emotionally connected, at the heat of the moment when you are so close, it is close to impossible.
Not saying it is impossible, but they are it is highly unlikely that nothing will happen.

[designer1]

Why would u cheat with a person that doesn’t even value you enough to break up with their SO before they get involved with u…

I feel like I’m order to cheat u have to have low self esteem. You shouldn’t even have gotten to the point where u both have a “deep emotional connection”. ATP you would have already cheated, just emotionally which is just as bad, if not worse than sexually cheating. Cheating is selfish and degrading to everyone involved. It makes absolutely no sense why anyone would seek a person already involved rather than explore other available options. No excuse.

[NikolasGLT]

You didn't understand me at all, when given the chance then most likely something will happen.
I'm not saying it is okay to do it, it is definitely one the of worst or possibly the worst thing to do.

[designer1]

Sorry I’m just really sensitive/ get triggered by stuff like this bc I’ve been emotionally cheated on 3 separate times. So yes, given the right circumstance and the right people (ones lacking self control) it happens. I still think it can be avoided tho.

[Uptowngirl88]

Dude just remain single. Sounds like you lack self control

[NikolasGLT]

I don't lack anything, seems like you lack knowledge to understand what I'm trying to say. I was speaking objectively regarding this whole thing. And many people become mad or upset because what I say is true and want to remain in denial like you. Instead of accepting that fact and try to become a better person.

[FilmGuy93]

I always find it interesting how people are so insistent that they won't cheat and they hate people who do, and yet I've seen firsthand how many people, women expecially are ready to step out behind their partner's back.

I'm not sure what to make of that but I find it very interesting.

[Corina_J]

No. There's this thing called integrity.

It's when you do the morally right thing, even when nobody is looking.

Definitely an underrated attribute.

And humanity is in dire lack of it.

[Anonymous]

i am single but recently met someone just an average guy and sparks flew from the second we met possibly a twin flame thing, we became best friends but in the end cheating with a married guy wouldn't be fair to his wife or myself. just not worth it to me, even if i wouldn't get caught i would still know. i told him if its meant to be we'll meet again sometime under different circumstances

[ManhattanMan1212]

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[Opinion Owner]

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[ManhattanMan1212]

Would you cheat or dump a great man if he only has a average penis size

[Opinion Owner]

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[Better_off_here]

im single but yes of course i think i would do it if i could.
i think most people cheat anyway because they believe no one will find out. cheaters seem to think they are smarter than anyone else. but i guess if i could i would choose a celeb i would pick Margot Robbie.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

What's the fun in cheating if there's no risk of getting caught?

I'm KIDDING, jeez. Of course if the person to cheat with was hot enough every last person here would cheat if they were guaranteed never to get caught. We're only human.

[lightbulb27]

no, I'd know and it would eat me up with guilt.

There are different personalities that would thrive on such emotional fix.

[KatieB713]

Definitely not... the idea of other people touching me kind of grosses me out XD
It is my partner or nothing

[Siren777]

No I wouldn't but then again...
Cheating is a choice. People do it because they feel they can get away with it.

[Lowiu]

No there is no situation that he wouldn't find out as Id tell him and I generally never would

[EmmaMary]

No absolutely not... Hell would need to freeze over first.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

I wouldn't cheat for any reason. Cheaters are cowards.

[KarinMcDonald]

I don't need to cheat. We're in an adult, consenting relationship.

[slatyb]

I would never say never, but it’s extremely unlikely as I’m happily married.

[AdithyaR]

I wouldn't. Even if no one else knew, I'd know.
I hate cheating and cheaters so there's no way I'd stoop to that level.

[Nagahime]

No, why would I want to ruin an already decently good relationship?

[serious_miss419]

Appealing enough ….
If someone was..


So if they’re appealing enough, it justifies all wrongs

[Anonymous]

A lot of people say no but really would if it was with someone tempting enough.

[whosnumber1]

so true

[Evan64]

Absolutely not. Cheating is disgusting through and through.