So is my boyfriend justified about what he said?

[Anonymous]

So I got a little mad earlier because I asked him could we stop by to get something to eat since we were close by restaurants. I'm already going through stuff so he huffed and was like "I'm trynna got to the gym" and I'm like "dang I can't get nothing, the gym's not going to go anywhere". Then he said " you don't want to eat what your mom cooked?" I said "I don't know when she'll cook, why I said could we stop somewhere". So it seemed like he got an attitude when he was the one to start it in the first place. I don't have time and don't need stress.

[Anonymous]

It's just a little disagreement. Maybe he was upset about something else. But I don't really see why he wouldn't want to get something to eat with you. Sounds like he was obsessing about himself with the gym crap.

[Asker]

Nope, if he was upset I don't feel he should take it out on me. Yupp I felt the gym could wait and it's not like he's late

[Opinion Owner]

Then you need to stand up for yourself and ask him why it was so important to go to the gym at that time instead of enjoying lunch. If you were hungry, maybe he had a good reason, but he shouldn't have gotten upset. My point was that you both got upset, and it was a disagreement that will blow over as long as it doesn't happen often.

[Asker]

Yeah I paid for my own meal. I told him about himself too

[HighValue]

Do you expect him to pay?
Maybe he wanted to save his money.

[Asker]

No, I paid myself just the principal of him making it seem like it was such a chore for him to do that and gym was THAT important.

[driven159]

does he have someone at the gym that he likes

[Asker]

I hope not

[driven159]

it sounds fishy do you go to the gym with him

[Asker]

Some times

[driven159]

ok so he more than likely doesn't have some there just being an asshole if he keeps it up might be time to find someone better your young you have your whole life ahead of you don't waste it