Considering how strongly we both feel about his younger sister (21) dating a guy who is 30, I highly doubt he would ever consider dating someone young. Nor do I think he could out up with someone younger 🤣
No. Everybody ages and trust le it is not that bad. You get more mature, more confident and you realize if he goes with someone else else only because she's younger then she's doing you a favor
No because that younger girl will never be me. She won’t know how to make him feel better on a bad day, what makes him tick, what makes him happy and what his darkest demons look like. True love goes way beyond the superficial stuff.
I'm not that concerned. I treat my partner well, I cook, I give him back rubs, I care about him a lot... so I hope that these are more valuable to him that sleeping with a younger women
I guess you can truly never know if a person is going to be loyal for the rest of your life, all you can do is make the best of the marriage and truly try to be happy
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Keep the balls drained on the regular and you're fine
There are many reason to marry. Some marry for looks, then divorce when the looks fail to excite. Some marry for money, and divorce when the money dries up.
You want to marry for love, faith, mutual harmony, etc. You can't expect to marry for looks, but expect the other to marry for love.
While that is a valid concern, I think you shouldn't worry about it.
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I have slept with a couple of really hot married guys before. They always feel bored of their wife because they are older in their 30s. Guys will always like younger girls and younger girls will always like older guys. Just the way it goes.
@strawberryshake I never said I like to have fun with married men. I said I have had sex with two married men before that were really hot. I had my fun so I’m not sure why you’re upset with me for being honest. 🤷🏼♀️
Not all rich successful men are like that. It has more to do with the guy's values, morals, character as a person than anything else. I have seen plenty of extremely intelligent , successful, rich men who do not cheat regardless of how many women are after them.
Many women marry guys that are the funniest, most charismatic but seldom do they ever place as much importance on his character, habits, morals, and values. This won't be a problem until very much later on in the marriage where these things start causing very noticeable issues.
There are a few guys at my job who want desperately wants to sleep with me and call me gorgeous / sexy all the time but don't want to leave their girlfriends. This is why its so important to pick a good man rather than picking the funniest / entertaining man.
I saw what you said about older guys in the comments below with that other psycho chick who's always talking down men's natural preferences for younger women. With that kind of attitude, a guy will definitely leave you, because you offer little or nothing besides youth and sex, when you're older, he can always upgrade like most women do with guys who have money. It's biological.
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No where did I say anything of what I have to offer. Thanks.
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Considering how strongly we both feel about his younger sister (21) dating a guy who is 30, I highly doubt he would ever consider dating someone young. Nor do I think he could out up with someone younger 🤣
Maybe it's the same fear (or lack of) that guys have of wondering if their wife will leave them for a younger more handsome stud.
No. Everybody ages and trust le it is not that bad. You get more mature, more confident and you realize if he goes with someone else else only because she's younger then she's doing you a favor
No because that younger girl will never be me. She won’t know how to make him feel better on a bad day, what makes him tick, what makes him happy and what his darkest demons look like. True love goes way beyond the superficial stuff.
Nah, i trusts him and you should talk about insecurities to be honest
I'm not that concerned. I treat my partner well, I cook, I give him back rubs, I care about him a lot... so I hope that these are more valuable to him that sleeping with a younger women
I guess you can truly never know if a person is going to be loyal for the rest of your life, all you can do is make the best of the marriage and truly try to be happy
Keep the balls drained on the regular and you're fine
Then don't marry for looks, you dunce.
There are many reason to marry. Some marry for looks, then divorce when the looks fail to excite. Some marry for money, and divorce when the money dries up.
You want to marry for love, faith, mutual harmony, etc. You can't expect to marry for looks, but expect the other to marry for love.
I don’t marry for looks but men do
Nah. That never crosses my mind. We are obssessed with each other.
Why?
If he leaves, it obviously wasn't for us.
I shouldn't expect a dude to stay if he's too busy chasing whats "Young and fresh".
While that is a valid concern, I think you shouldn't worry about it.
I have slept with a couple of really hot married guys before. They always feel bored of their wife because they are older in their 30s. Guys will always like younger girls and younger girls will always like older guys. Just the way it goes.
You're such a fucking skank
Excuse me? Do you even know me? I like to have fun. How does that make me a bad person?
You like to have fun with married men? Yeah fuck you whore.
30 year old women are young …
@anonymous
So true. I also slept with many married woman. Secret truth is after few years both married partner get bored from eachother.
How old were the women you slept with compared to you?
30+ and one woman was 35+
But sex was awesome.
Ok then her theory was wrong
Are you free right now?
I’m about to go to sleep.. unless you mean free as in single then yea
@strawberryshake I never said I like to have fun with married men. I said I have had sex with two married men before that were really hot. I had my fun so I’m not sure why you’re upset with me for being honest. 🤷🏼♀️
@anonymous
Quick sexting session? Than pm me. I'm too on my bed.
@StrawberryShake she is not to blame. The cheating fucks are the ones in a relationship. They are the ones cheating on their wives.
Then why you got no upvotes troll?
If you take care of your man and keep him satisfied he'll have no reason to leave you or cheat on you.
Don't worry. If your husband doesn't have a lot of money nobody at least young and pretty is going to desire his old behind anyways.
I’m dating a lawyer
Lawyers make good money so a lot of options will be there for him. Get a decent man and hope for the best.
But what does richness have to do with being a decent man?
@asker
Because there are a lot of gold diggers out there.
Ok and again explain how this makes a person an asshole because they have money?
Money has a way of making people become entitled and arrogant and it doesn't help when there are young and pretty women looking to get near.
This makes people sound so shallow
Humans by nature are vain and shallow.
@asker
Not all rich successful men are like that. It has more to do with the guy's values, morals, character as a person than anything else. I have seen plenty of extremely intelligent , successful, rich men who do not cheat regardless of how many women are after them.
Many women marry guys that are the funniest, most charismatic but seldom do they ever place as much importance on his character, habits, morals, and values. This won't be a problem until very much later on in the marriage where these things start causing very noticeable issues.
There are a few guys at my job who want desperately wants to sleep with me and call me gorgeous / sexy all the time but don't want to leave their girlfriends. This is why its so important to pick a good man rather than picking the funniest / entertaining man.
I don’t know if that’s by nature. I think it’s taught
just don't get fat, cut you hair short and become and angry femmenist like every other married women over 40 and he will stay loyal
Always the reply of a single guy.
I saw what you said about older guys in the comments below with that other psycho chick who's always talking down men's natural preferences for younger women. With that kind of attitude, a guy will definitely leave you, because you offer little or nothing besides youth and sex, when you're older, he can always upgrade like most women do with guys who have money. It's biological.
No where did I say anything of what I have to offer. Thanks.
I would be worried if i got married. But then you can't really blame them. It's evolutionary to prioritize fertility in your female partner
that's fucked up and anyone who does that is a piece of shit and shouldn't get married
No. And this goes both ways. I don't know why only guys get a bad rep. of wanting younger women.