So I am asking because I am lost at how to deal with these feelings... and its not my girlfriend's fault.. as its much as it is her friend.
So we were going to travel to see her friend in another part of the country. Her friend could only meet at around 1pm due to having a haircut she didn't want to cancel. Fast forward and me and my girlfriend thought it would be a nice idea to book a hotel instead and stay over so we could visit her friend at 1pm, then have the rest of the evening to us at a romantic place. She told her friend and got recommended a hotel by a lake, so we booked there. The plan was that we would meet up with her friend, carry on driving 45 minutes check out a city nearby then go back to hotel in the evening, chill and have a romantic evening as its been a long while since we have.
As the day gets closer, her friend messages back and says she is going to book a place to eat, says she is busy with her haircut and can't now meet till later in the evening, my girlfriend just agrees then tells me later and they book a place at 6.30pm, at a place 50 minutes away in the wrong direction, with check in etc. It would mean we had to travel past the hotel to sightsee, go back to the hotel, then go out again then back to the hotel.. which is ridiculous and not relaxing at all. Like 3 hours travelling in total, as the place they chose to meet was no where near the hotel they recommended.
So first part, we had to get rid of the romantic hotel by the lake and book somewhere close neat the city... so same prices, basic room, nothing romantic about it or the area. The other part is that time of the meal, by time we are done neither of us are going to be in the mood for anything else apart from sleep.
but now my mood changed from being happy about finally having some time together in an intimate/romantic way to... I'm just not looking that forward to it anymore or up for anything after the meal, it's killed the mood for me any advice?
So we were going to travel to see her friend in another part of the country. Her friend could only meet at around 1pm due to having a haircut she didn't want to cancel. Fast forward and me and my girlfriend thought it would be a nice idea to book a hotel instead and stay over so we could visit her friend at 1pm, then have the rest of the evening to us at a romantic place. She told her friend and got recommended a hotel by a lake, so we booked there. The plan was that we would meet up with her friend, carry on driving 45 minutes check out a city nearby then go back to hotel in the evening, chill and have a romantic evening as its been a long while since we have.
As the day gets closer, her friend messages back and says she is going to book a place to eat, says she is busy with her haircut and can't now meet till later in the evening, my girlfriend just agrees then tells me later and they book a place at 6.30pm, at a place 50 minutes away in the wrong direction, with check in etc. It would mean we had to travel past the hotel to sightsee, go back to the hotel, then go out again then back to the hotel.. which is ridiculous and not relaxing at all. Like 3 hours travelling in total, as the place they chose to meet was no where near the hotel they recommended.
So first part, we had to get rid of the romantic hotel by the lake and book somewhere close neat the city... so same prices, basic room, nothing romantic about it or the area. The other part is that time of the meal, by time we are done neither of us are going to be in the mood for anything else apart from sleep.
but now my mood changed from being happy about finally having some time together in an intimate/romantic way to... I'm just not looking that forward to it anymore or up for anything after the meal, it's killed the mood for me any advice?
