Okay so I kinda have a thing for a guy I work with, separate departments, so we don't see each other a lot unless I go out of my way to help him and vice versa.
Now, I work with his older brother who I can't stand. He's lazy, I am always doing his work, he's rude to me, and always has some sexual comment that would flattering IF he didn't have a girlfriend of 2 and a half years who he lives with.
Now, I have a lot in common with his younger brother. We both practice martial arts, he likes a lot of the same video games, he's really funny, and I kinda told him how I feel. Then he started asking questions about past relationships and telling me about his. I told him about and his brothers actions & even he agrees that his brother can be really horrible at times and is hard to deal with.
I wouldn't bring it up to my boss until I knew we were serious. If we don't get serious that's okay to. But I am concerned about his brother, and I am just looking for general thoughts on this.
Does anyone deal with something like this?
Now, I work with his older brother who I can't stand. He's lazy, I am always doing his work, he's rude to me, and always has some sexual comment that would flattering IF he didn't have a girlfriend of 2 and a half years who he lives with.
Now, I have a lot in common with his younger brother. We both practice martial arts, he likes a lot of the same video games, he's really funny, and I kinda told him how I feel. Then he started asking questions about past relationships and telling me about his. I told him about and his brothers actions & even he agrees that his brother can be really horrible at times and is hard to deal with.
I wouldn't bring it up to my boss until I knew we were serious. If we don't get serious that's okay to. But I am concerned about his brother, and I am just looking for general thoughts on this.
Does anyone deal with something like this?
