My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over 4 years. I recently joined the military and moved overseas for a 3 year assignment. We both got each other promise rings and had many dreams of a long future together. About 3 weeks into me being overseas, she broke up with me. Then 2 days later she called and said, "I still have feelings for you... I still want you in my life" I agreed that we shared the same feelings and that I needed to work on myself if we were to make it work in the future, so we shifted from a breakup to a pause. But of the few conversations we had following the shift she has gotten very cold towards me and we haven't talked in about a month. She got a gift for my sister's wedding shower about 2 weeks ago and my parents say that she is considering going to the wedding. I recently sent a box to my folks with some things from here as well as a section of the box for her with a sweatshirt, some of her favorite candy, some things from my childhood that are still out at the base I'm assigned to (military brat assigned to the same base I spent most of my life at), and a gift of a holiday that is occurring around me, I also sent a letter in the box letting her know that I am doing better and want to talk about the relationship moving forward and set up a specific date and time, included in the letter was also info on the items I got for her and a thank you for the gift she bought my sister.
The question I have is, will our relationship be alright? From the info provided do you think that her and I will move past this pause and continue to have a long term relationship?
The question I have is, will our relationship be alright? From the info provided do you think that her and I will move past this pause and continue to have a long term relationship?
