I am friends with my boyfriends mother and she is very fond of me. We talk a lot and I hang out with her when my boyfriend is doing this own thing or whatever because I’m cool like that. I love his mom and all but she texts me quite a lot. It’s my fault because I have given her my phone number but it would have been inevitable since I’m sure my boyfriend would have given it to his mother if i didn’t already. His mom texts me stuff asking where he is or has he eaten or tell him to answer
her back etc. She texts me more than my own mother does. Which, not going to lie, kind of annoys me. I’m not sure if I am acting unreasonable for feeling annoyed. I would rather just speak to her when I see her. But recently I have been very busy with my job and college that I have not been able to even hang out with my boyfriend for longer than 30 minutes at a time for about 2 weeks now. I have been telling him that I am thinking of getting another job to keep up with loans and everything and he has told me he understands. A few days ago my boyfriends mom texted me and asked if I am “done” with her son. She continued to say that I should break up with him if I do not have the time to spend time with him because I am making him miserable not doing so. I responded that I was really busy and I don’t want to end things with my boyfriend at all. Then she proceeded to tell me to “just get things done”. I was appalled at this and was upset of how nosey she was being and how she was trying to say he’s miserable because of me. I feel like she is intruding on our relationship and is acting like what I am doing is so easy while inputting her opinion that I don’t want. I am going through hard times right now as a student. I told my boyfriend to subtly tell her I don’t want her to text me anymore about this or anything. And I really don’t want her to stop liking me. What do I dooo and am I being unreasonable?
her back etc. She texts me more than my own mother does. Which, not going to lie, kind of annoys me. I’m not sure if I am acting unreasonable for feeling annoyed. I would rather just speak to her when I see her. But recently I have been very busy with my job and college that I have not been able to even hang out with my boyfriend for longer than 30 minutes at a time for about 2 weeks now. I have been telling him that I am thinking of getting another job to keep up with loans and everything and he has told me he understands. A few days ago my boyfriends mom texted me and asked if I am “done” with her son. She continued to say that I should break up with him if I do not have the time to spend time with him because I am making him miserable not doing so. I responded that I was really busy and I don’t want to end things with my boyfriend at all. Then she proceeded to tell me to “just get things done”. I was appalled at this and was upset of how nosey she was being and how she was trying to say he’s miserable because of me. I feel like she is intruding on our relationship and is acting like what I am doing is so easy while inputting her opinion that I don’t want. I am going through hard times right now as a student. I told my boyfriend to subtly tell her I don’t want her to text me anymore about this or anything. And I really don’t want her to stop liking me. What do I dooo and am I being unreasonable?
