For me it was being used as a “placeholder” until something better came along. I had this happen years ago and it was horrible. She felt no guilt about it either.
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lying and manipulating.. and then abusing. If they start of with direct abuse you are more likely to leave. It gets a real problem if you are first manipulated into thinking you deserve the way they treat you badly
The worst thing you can do In a relationship is , start a new one without being over: the last relationship, Ex, and unresolved self issues and unhealed scars.
In my opinion lying is worse than cheating. She can cheat and just not care or cheat and feel bad. If she lies though, then I don't even know if she's telling the truth when she says that she loves me.
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I can possibly live with cheating and lying. The worst thing, though, would be if my partner denigrated me in public. That's a deal-breaker.
For me it was being used as a “placeholder” until something better came along. I had this happen years ago and it was horrible. She felt no guilt about it either.
lying and manipulating.. and then abusing. If they start of with direct abuse you are more likely to leave. It gets a real problem if you are first manipulated into thinking you deserve the way they treat you badly
The worst thing you can do In a relationship is , start a new one without being over: the last relationship, Ex, and unresolved self issues and unhealed scars.
Cheating is the worst betrayal. Lying is bad depending and lying about Cheating is bad but Cheating that act of complete betrayal is the the worst.
Lie about their level of care and concern for you in order to extract benefit from you. Whatever the benefit is. I. e. use you for selfish purposes.
Dishonesty, which cheating falls under. Followed closely by lack of respect.
I mean, cheat is pretty obvious, but murdering someone is also kind of a deal breaker.
There are two things that I couldn't take in a relationship: lying and treating me like dirt.
In my opinion lying is worse than cheating. She can cheat and just not care or cheat and feel bad. If she lies though, then I don't even know if she's telling the truth when she says that she loves me.
Betrayal as a blanket term.
But as far as individual things, rape. By far.
I totally forgot r9pe.
I'm completely okay if my SO wants to fuck/date other guys while were together. For me, the worst is a bad attitude. It's exhausting.
Be a narcissist lie, cheat, steal right before your eyes.. Meanwhile telling you how crazy you are.
Comparison, lack of respect, gas lighting, cheating, abuse, blackmailing.
On top of lying and cheating, leaving you alone too much.
Having sex with someone else.
That is a big no from me.
Physical abuse, rape, assault. Cheating isn't nice but with abuse and sexual assault, cheating doesn't sound so bad
For me it's betrayal of trust there is no coming back from that.
Lie on me and accuse me of pressuring them to have sex, now come on so glad I never went back with her, she was an accident about to happen.
For me its cheating. Cause its pretty much gonna give me the okay to do it back.