Boyfriend brought chocolates for his bestfriends fiance, am I being insecure?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has been friends with his best friends since child hood, and his best friend has a fiance who he has known for around 6 years

Today she mentioned how he brang chocolates round for her because she was having a really bad dad and upset, it's rare she gets upset so I can see why he did it

We all mingle and he has no problem me meeting them etc, I'm new to being in relationships.. is this normal? Am I being insecure? I do find it sweet but also concerned

[jennifer_bloom]

This reminds me of the flag rule in our country, Canada says you have to have a Canada flag equal or greater then the size of any other flag you choose to put up whenever you choose to put a non Canadian flag in a public location outside of a sporting or athletic event. You could tell him he has to buy you chocolates twice as expensive as the chocolates he buys other woman if he wants to buy other woman chocolate. If he says no, you won’t do your half of the house work or contribute to the bills.

[Anonymous]

Ultimately one can go on about how long they were friends and how he was comforting her etc etc... but the minute he decided to get into a relationship with you, he should have developed a whole new set of personal boundaries, respect and consideration. If one wants to do whatever they wish without concern of how it may come across, or whether they are crossing boundaries then they should just remain single.

[Waldoe]

You should try NOT to worry, it sounds like he is a nice guy, offer to "chip in" next time and sign the "Greeting card" that way it from you both as a couple... see how he responds to that idea... it will tell you a lot about him

[Smashingdoozy]

You're being insecure and over thinking it. Your boyfriend is obviously very caring and that's his best friend. You've met her, you've all hung out together, it would be highly unlikely there is anything other than friendship between them. If he felt any other way about her he wouldn't let you hang around her.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Asker]

I needed to hear that haha

[Smashingdoozy]

Also it's just chocolate 😂 would be a completely different story if he bought her lingerie or something intimate

[Shamalien]

Hmm this is wisdom

[becee23love]

I'm not really sure they have been friends since childhood he probably would of dated her back then it could be just a friendly thing no one ever truly knows but you know your boyfriend more than we do🙂.

[slatyb]

Emotionally healthy people have friends of both sexes.

[Anonymous]

He's known her since childhood so I wouldn't worry too much

[Emanon25]

That’s not a good idea

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[Emanon25]

He should not do that

[Asker]

But it's his best friends fiance so why would he mean anything other than being nice, he's also known her for years and we plan to move out together so hopefully it meant nothing?

[Luckycharms12]

Ya there friends for years over thinking things