It takes courage to lead our hearts into healthy relationships, into making good choices, and in recognizing the traits and qualities that make a good marriage, and the qualities and traits that do not.
We live in a culture that would rather have feelings over faithfulness.
Sexual chemistry over compatibility.
Infatuation over integrity.
Attraction over attitude.
Glamour over godliness.
Hotness over humility.
Being in love over choosing to love. When are you ready to CHOOSE love? Every single day of your life.
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I was in the same situation in 2017. I still think about it, but I should probably just forget about it because it's in the past.
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I can think about "what if" and ponder AND leave it in the past because I don't dwell on it. I can daydream about it, but I don't get fixated on what might have been. I live in the present, so "Be Here Now".
Yep, my ex crush. Loved her totally. But she was taken, and we stopped talking after a couple of years.
I still miss her quite often. She was such a fantastic girl. Probably one of the best I've ever met, if not the best of all.I often wonder what would have happened if I asked out my other crushes. I figure that I'd probably be less happy, but I don't know.
I chose other to see the result. I have never had an experience like this, no dating or anything.
I always think about what could have been.
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