Okay so my boyfriend isn’t really the best with money.
He doesn’t have a job or other sources of income but he needs to survive so he is financially Dependent on his mother ( she is wealthy) for everything she pays his rent , car , food also cooks for him , and gives him allowance and anything else he needs
He is 40 years old I’m 27
he has no plans or making money other ways he says it too hard you have to know the right people and he doesn’t.
He once had another income his inheritance 100,000 but he spent it all and that was in Oct. I told him to invest his money he said he didn’t want to
Around that same time
He also developed a Cocaine habit from a friend... and spent half of his money on that so only had 50,000 which is gone now and he’s back on his mother’s money.
should I say something or is this normal because she is his mother that birthed him and I know she cares. Is it harmless?
(He also wants babies and marriage I’m not so comfy with that I want my man to be a provider for the family without feeling like his mum has to take care of him his baby and girlfriend. )
He doesn’t have a job or other sources of income but he needs to survive so he is financially Dependent on his mother ( she is wealthy) for everything she pays his rent , car , food also cooks for him , and gives him allowance and anything else he needs
He is 40 years old I’m 27
he has no plans or making money other ways he says it too hard you have to know the right people and he doesn’t.
He once had another income his inheritance 100,000 but he spent it all and that was in Oct. I told him to invest his money he said he didn’t want to
Around that same time
He also developed a Cocaine habit from a friend... and spent half of his money on that so only had 50,000 which is gone now and he’s back on his mother’s money.
should I say something or is this normal because she is his mother that birthed him and I know she cares. Is it harmless?
(He also wants babies and marriage I’m not so comfy with that I want my man to be a provider for the family without feeling like his mum has to take care of him his baby and girlfriend. )
