What are some reasons you broke up with a boy or girl when the relationship was 100% healthy?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend pretty much doesn't want kids anymore and I'm hoping she will change her mind we been through for 7 years she keeps bring up getting married sometimes but I told her I will not get married to any women unless we have kids first because of our past bad experiences. My girlfriend says she wants to be married for 5 years with dogs before she will even think of given me one kid. My issues with this is we had two kids twins that she give up her rights to they were put in forster care. This broke me in two I tried fighting to get them back but decided to give them up for adoption since it had been 2 years at that point. So because of this I don't truest her words or any women words. My girlfriend suffers from ptsd that is tigged by kids because of sometime her mom did to her. Anyway what are some reasons you ended a healthy relationship? Besides her not waiting kids our relationship is really good but I don't wanna give up on my dream of being a dad and having my own family.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you’re wasting time to me. Doesn’t matter if the relationship is healthy, you two have different goals and you shouldn’t miss out on fatherhood for her sake. For all you know, telling you she’ll be ready in five years is just another way to string you along. What happens when 5 years passed and she’s still struggling with ptsd and doesn’t want kids? That’s time you’ll never get back and could have been spent either being with someone more compatible or at least wants the same thing.

[Asker]

Sadly true

[Smashingdoozy]

I think you should end the relationship. It's pretty clear your future goals aren't aligned, also seems like you're always going to resent her for what she did.

A healthy relationship that I ended was basically because we just ended up being friends. We stopped doing relationship type things and we're just hanging out without romantic interest. He was also very hung up on his ex so it just ended up not being right. We're still good friends, best friends infact.

[Asker]

I'm hoping we can still he friends some how but its been 7 years. My whole family sees her as family and treats her rlike my wife

[Asker]

Happy you could be friends with your ex

[possumpi26]

My family moved to another state. We had a good relationship and enjoyed being together but I was only 18 and still hadn't graduated. We dated for two and a half years.

[Asker]

Awww thats sad

[possumpi26]

Nah it's alright, he found a nice girlfriend and I found a nice boyfriend

[Asker]

Awww good