Does it change when my best friend has a girlfriend, will she stop caring about me?

[Anonymous]

My best friend is a woman. I met her 7 years ago and we have been very close for the last 4 years, we can tell each other everything because we both don't judge each other and come up with solutions. When her name is mentioned, my name is also mentioned because everyone knows how close we are with her. She hasn't had a boyfriend since I met her. Me too. We tried to adjust to the people we liked each other, but distanced ourselves from many of them as we got to know each other. Now she made a boyfriend very recently. I'm so happy, all I want is for her to be happy and never be sad. I haven't met her boyfriend yet. But when she made a boyfriend, I started to feel like I was alone, I'm afraid that she will not take care of me like she used to. Many people have experienced this situation before. What do you think?

[NathanDavis]

things change yes, of course...

but you should not take it like that... it doesn't mean that they will no longer care about you

and if you truly are her friend, then you should never expect her to make you a priority over her own happiness, if she needs balance, she will find balance

if she has to make her relationship a significant priority then she will do that, it doesn't mean she stopped caring though... and you should definitely not make a difficulty out of that

you're not a baby anymore, and you do not have to be taken care of

[LindsayR07]

Hard to say, some people get wrapped up into their partner and lose themselves