Have any of you had a experience where like either shortly before you/or your boyfriend proposed they acted differently around you? So much so that it made you feel like something was wrong?
He hasn’t like exactly said anything.. but he’s kinda hinted at it that makes me think he might be planning something. For instance we’ve been planning a trip together for a while and recently he’s gotten pushy about going even though he knows I can’t get off work.. so much so that he begged me that he’d do anything if we could go right then. And he asked what I wanted most and I told him.. and what I want most is for him and me to get married and have a family.. but his family doesn’t believe in that sort of thing so I kinda figured it was not a possibility for us. And he just turned and looked with a smirk on his face and said “you never know it might happen.” And I can’t help but feeling like he has been thinking about it in order to say something like that. Otherwise why would he say it’s a possibility? He’s also made other comments that have made me kinda wonder if he has been planning something.. but when I ask him more about it he just says “I can’t tell you.” Or changes the subject. He’s also been more distant than usual.. like way more than usual which if he was actually thinking of proposing to me could this be him taking time to think? Is that a thing that guys get more distant before the propose to someone because they’re thinking about the commitment that would mean?
He hasn’t like exactly said anything.. but he’s kinda hinted at it that makes me think he might be planning something. For instance we’ve been planning a trip together for a while and recently he’s gotten pushy about going even though he knows I can’t get off work.. so much so that he begged me that he’d do anything if we could go right then. And he asked what I wanted most and I told him.. and what I want most is for him and me to get married and have a family.. but his family doesn’t believe in that sort of thing so I kinda figured it was not a possibility for us. And he just turned and looked with a smirk on his face and said “you never know it might happen.” And I can’t help but feeling like he has been thinking about it in order to say something like that. Otherwise why would he say it’s a possibility? He’s also made other comments that have made me kinda wonder if he has been planning something.. but when I ask him more about it he just says “I can’t tell you.” Or changes the subject. He’s also been more distant than usual.. like way more than usual which if he was actually thinking of proposing to me could this be him taking time to think? Is that a thing that guys get more distant before the propose to someone because they’re thinking about the commitment that would mean?
