Are we moving too fast because it doesn't feel like we are?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing this guy for just over two weeks now. My mom set us up on this one date and ever since we've hit things off soooooo well !! We both agree the relationship doesn't feel like we're trying to impress the other or feel like we are compromising anything ! It feels Soo natural and comfortable. He's been looking into houses an his dream house was built in the 80s, but has been torn down and redone... his dream house just so happens to be a house that I grew up in as a kid ! He asked me how do we justify moving too quickly if neither of us feel like it is moving too fast. I am smitten by this man ! My question is if we both feel this at ease, being our natural most pure selves, in this shirt period of time is it too fast to talk about a future with one another, or to be moving too quickly in general?

[LazerBean]

I don't see why you shouldn't talk about what you want and expect out of a future early on. Making sure you two want the same things out of life is very important. Just make sure you have all the same values and ideals on how you expect your houselife/roles/children raised and everything else important.

[driven159]

Every relationship is different some people are together for the rest of their life at first site but that is not all the time if it doesn't seem to be too fast then just go with the flow just communicate and make sure you two or on the right path and don't be afraid to say slow down

[Asker]

We both are on the same page !! He asked me " how do we justify if we are moving too fast. " I've not felt this way with anyone, and this is amazing. I just didn't know how to respond when he asked because I can't justify it to anyone else but he and I don't have to justify it to anyone else... that's prob more of what I should have said lol thank you !!!