Why doesn't my girlfriend let me finish?

[Anonymous]

Me 18M Her 17F We have been together for 3 years now and this has always been a problem my sex drive is higher then hers and we can be having sex for 10 minutes her being into it and then she will randomly stop while we are in a empty house and say she's scared someones gonna catch us or she will say it hurts too much which is totally reasonable but then she won't finish me and expect me to finish her which i dont and then she gets sad because she can tell im mad and she says we can keep going but im not gonna force her to do something what should i do

[SueShe]

Let me see if I see that correctly.

At age 17, she is a child as per the definition of the United Nations. At age 18 you are an adult according to the law of most Western civilizations.

Adult having sexual relations with a child = pedophilia. No but of if. You are a criminal even if you personally don't see it.

No wonder that your girlfriend does not want to be seen or heard because not only would it put her in a difficult situation but it would put you into jail for the above mentioned sexual crime.

I do sincerely hope that someone will find out and press charge for this sexual crime.

[TwiNshichamp1]

Hahaha did not you have a boyfriend below 18 years 🤔

[jasco]

Actually its not illegal in a lot of states for a 17 year old to date a 18 year old. However most would agree they shouldn't date tho

[SueShe]

@jasco I was actually referring to civilized countries and not the US. We are all aware that pedophilia is actively promoted by authorities.

[jasco]

@SueShe wow um ok, it is legal in the UK for a 17 year to date a 18 year old, same laws apply everywhere else. Both the U. S. and the UK say that you can have a non physically relationship with a 17 year old so um I don't know where you got the information from but its wrong

[SueShe]

@jasco Just search "Romeo & Juliet law" that endorses sex between adult and children in the US. To me, that is endorsing, even promoting pedophilia.

[jasco]

Could you explain to me how to promotes pedo's?

[Gent207]

18 and 17 is walking a line in most states in the U. S. But that aside, my money is that you've been using porn to increase your performance. If you lay off the porn you will finish sooner and not give her friction burns and scars.
True facts if she says it hurts, IT HURTS. The lies you see in porn are the result of editing, blackmail and cohesion (forcing them to consent to longer more extreme performances or not get paid).
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[Guy13]

Women are rarely straight line thinkers. If we straight line think them into feeling of inadequacy then “sometimes” rather stay away from than know they are disappointing. Fear of disappointment, can drive women in all things. Flowers…like sunflowers 🌻 “not as bright as you”. 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[bamesjond0069]

You're inexperienced so you don't know. This is called brat behavior or female logic. Just simply have standards and be confident and it will stop. Say, "no. We will continue or we will no longer have sex. If we no longer have sex ill be looking for other dating opportunities." Just as she needs to consent, so do you. Do not consent to sex or giving her sexual satisfaction if it does not meet your requirements.

[jasco]

Honestly I would just tell her that love, I love you I do but I can't keep doing this we having sex and neither of us finishing. I don't like doing it. You don't like it, so lets try to finish each other next time

[Avicenna]

Only she knows. You need to communicate better with each other

[In_Trance]

Talk to her about it