I think as long as it’s an hour or 2 you shouldn’t be to worried but if she’s talking spending a good portion of your trip with her friend that’s definitely inconsiderate, just try to not make threats and emotionally distance yourself. I learned this from a friend along time ago but the person who cares the most always has the lower hand in the relationship when it comes to these things sadly but it’s true. I would say if she does do more than that look on events on Airbnb and find something with a group you would have a good time doing maybe even consider going in a date to emotionally distance yourself and see how things are, I wouldn’t recommend sexually cheating tho even tho neither is ethical something about sleeping in the same bed with someone after being with another person sexually just crosses a line because your risking that other persons sexual health.
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I dont care for anyones friends. I’ll play nice but deep down I’ll always feel theyre in the way lmao
That's weird. It honestly sounds like dealing with my Mother-in-law. My wife has gotten some clingy friends over the years and it's usually not for good reasons. Not only do they become demanding of time, but sometimes they start to influence my wife in ways that don't benefit me at all. I'd say you've got a gut feeling about her for a reason and not to ignore it. I'm guessing here, but I'd guess the point of the vacation was, at least for you, to get away from the clingy friend and spend time with your girlfriend... messed up she just follows to the vaction spot.
Yikes... I would be like choose her or me... that's me though. Especially if you planned and spent. Hardly any guys these days plan, much less pay, vacation for girlfriend... That's a strange connection those two have... She can't be without your girlfriend for a week?
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Dump her. She didn’t even ask your opinion before inviting her friend or letting her friend impose. She already values your thoughts and feelings less than the friend’s. Might even be using you for your money while inviting her girlfriend along deliberately. It’s not going to end well.
Dump her and take someone else!
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