When you’re close to losing someone you used to love, do you start to reminisce like crazy? (Page 2)

DizzyDesii · 2022-07-09T19:23:37Z

One of my exes got shot last night and all I keep thinking about is our last hug yet I can't even remember if that was this year or last year. The years are going to fast. He’s an ICU and we don’t know if he’ll make it but I’m hopeful. He’s definitely changed from the man I once fell for, but he was trying to get back on the right track and even saved a kid from a bullet while he took 2. I really hope he’s okay because I hope to see his sweet smile again. He’s one of the few exes who never ended up on my bad side but I never could allow myself to fall for him again. To think it started with a punch to his balls in vacation bible school to him becoming my first “I love you” after I escaped that first boyfriend/psycho ex. I don't know I just want him to be okay. No matter if I open or close my eyes, all I see is his face rn... I can’t stop reminiscing and my head hurts #FeelFreeToList #StaySafe

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James899 Follow
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oh no. that is something so sad to hear. be strong girl. he will be alright soon!

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Yea i grieve in a weird way. Like im numb on the inside but i still find myself smiling and laughing out loud. Not sure if its cause whats on tv or if im just reminiscing happy moments
  
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- James899
  
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  it happens sometimes. i felt the same when suddenly my close friend got a bike accident few years ago. its somethings hurts inside and outside we are being normal.
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Are they alive and well now?
  
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- James899
  
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  No. he is alive in my memories and he is evergreen now.
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  🥺🥺
  
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- James899
  
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  Keep doing your works. do something you like the most. please dont be alone, it will take sometime to come out of it. at last life has to move on. This too shall pass!
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Im okay. I cried harder for Paul Walker. But i still dont want anything to happen to him. he's a goodhearted guy deep down
  
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- James899
  
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  Nothing will happen to him! he will be alright soon. sometimes we are just a spectators who can simply sit back and watch out thats happening around us.
  
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- James899
  
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  @DizzyDesii how's he now?
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Unfortunately no word on it. The people who shot him are still on the loose so i’m assuming the immediate fam are freaking out and keeping quiet. I don't know but i’d like to know more. My uncle is closest to his mom so he’ll let me know if he hears anything
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  They’re showin the little bastards that shot my boy on the news. They’re talkin about if the investigator doesn't get paperwork together by Friday, they get to be released on $25,000 bond. Thats fcked up. Last i heard, he's in critical but stable condition
  
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maximumpower Follow
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No. You really need to move on and find another set with whom to associate.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Dude what are you talking about? Im not in love with the guy anymore. I just dont want him to die
  
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Pudsmucker Follow
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Sorry to hear one of your friends got shot trying to save somebody.

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  Apparently he was the target but he saved his child
  
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Only if I feel like whatever happened could have been easily avoided.

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SamIam96 Follow
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OMG. I'm so sorry about your friend.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Thank you
  
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- SamIam96
  
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  would you post an update, pls
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  haven't gotten one unfortunately
  
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- SamIam96
  
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  We're thinking of you.
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Thank you.
  
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Anpu23 Follow
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I am so sorry, Desii. Hope he is okay!!!

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I hope so too. And i hope you’re feeling okay because I know you’re going through a lot as well
  
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- Anpu23
  
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  Yah, it's good. I've had a couple of day now. We buried him in our back field, and I check on him this morning. The other dogs are still adjusting as well. I cried like a baby when I put him down, the vets won't release the body if you have them do it so... So yah, I drank pretty heavily that night and didn't sleep a wink. But it's getting better... day by day. Thank you for asking
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Anytime 🙏
  
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do you live in the ghetto?

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- Birdlegs
  
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  Probably not the best time for a question like that
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  I feel like she's trying to be funny. And no i do not. He was at a gas station near the church
  
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I prayed for you, Desi.

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Thank you
  
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- Jamie05rhs
  
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  You're welcome! 💜
  
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TrillXHippy Follow
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Hope he survives and I hope you’ll be okay

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- DizzyDesii
  
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  Hope so too
  
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Some times I guess

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legalboxers Follow
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not anymore

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  :( :(
  
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yes!

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