Why do I judge others for being selfish or dumb when I am the same in ways... How do I stop judging?

I am as overly forgiving as Khloe Kardashian.

And just as thirsty for a relationship.

I am selfish because I would entertain a man with a girlfriend. (A wife is pushing it. I respect marriage too much to do that).

Why do I judge others for being selfish or dumb when I am the same in ways... How do I stop judging?
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