My girlfriend left for a job position to South America and said she would come back in 7 months, then a year and keep extending it.
It's been nearly 4 years by now. I feel like the male version of a Penelope, that waited and waited. My family is getting tired of that situation and are already advising me to close the chapter and stop waiting for her. Do I throw the towel by now? Is this too long to wait?