Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to snap a female friend at 1am? ?

[Anonymous]

So for some reason I had a gut feeling to check my boyfriend's cell. I found a voice clip that hasn't been deleted where Friday night, at 1am, my boyfriend sent a voice clip to a friend that he know for almost 10 years. He said he was on his way home (when he told me he stated home all night) and gave a specific location of where he was driving (cross streets). He stated he was sorry he didn't go eat at her house and he would go over but it was so late but wished he could go to give her a big kiss on her cheek. This isn't the first time I notice a message between the 2 of them in the middle of the night. I love him and he says I'm the love of his life. Advice very much appreciated.

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Oh and we are currently no longer living together because 2 weeks ago I found he deleted some messages where a new female friend from work stated "you passed the test, my puppy likes you". He explained she needed a ride home because her car broke down, so he gave her a total of 3 rides home. On 3rd she offered to smoke him out and he went inside to smoke on patio (per his story). I don't know what to think. He doesn't see anything inappropriate with his actions...

[spartan55]

If you are breaking into his phone it's already over anyway.

[Shamalien]

A kiss on the cheek? Hmmm…that isn’t necessarily indicative of anything. No nudes? Probably all good tbh altho 1am is too late to snap the opposite gender when in a relationship

[EarthRealm]

As my dad used to always Say to my sister. Pack your shit and get the fuck outta my house 😂

[Smallboobsgotohell]

I have a gut feeling that he asked for nudes

[NishantPu]

No.
I have a girl snapping me random stuff since last 2 years. We don't talk just send pictures ( not nudes) . I think she is my friend.

[007kingifrit]

it's not appropriate for either you or your boyfriend to be on snap while in a relationship. it's for sex, nothing else.

[Jouth]

It's only okay if he's snapping her dick pics.

Anything else is unnacceptable.

[Anonymous]

He either is cheating or wants to cheat. Best to dump him and find someone loyal.

[Finchie40]

Dump him , he is playing you

[Snedger____]

Just a normal snap? It's okay I think

[In_Trance]

Aren't you a little old for this garbage?

[Anonymous]

Never trust a man in that way.

[Iron_Man]

No it’s not

[Guy13]

No it is not.

[Guy13]

I am sorry that you had to find out by being a forced Private Investigator. There's just lots of temptation out there in the world these days. Perhaps, you will find a more resolved guy for next relationship. Damn, I hate this kind of thing. I hope you feel better soon.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he is cheating on you.

[Wubs3000]

Get out

[Anonymous]

No, not really…