Do you ever say nonsexual dominant things like this to your partner or vice versa?

[Anonymous]

Do you ever say nonsexual dominant things like this to your partner or vice versa? This is a dominant text message a person sends to their partner. I saw it from this link

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[MrOracle]

You bet.

Submissives like being given tasks to do. The task itself may or may not be important (and she doesn't always need to know which it is), but doing the tasks forces her to think about me constantly, plus gives her something to either earn praise and rewards, or earn punishments - and submissives want plenty of opportunities for both. They thrive off the attention and the risk/reward system.

[DirkCoenen]

I only do this when they are in a bad mood and I know them well enough to know that she neglects to take care if herself. My paternal insticts kick in and I let her know I want her to take care of herself and be healthy

[1GoldTwins]

I've said things like that before, but only to help him be better.

[Asker]

I think that is supposed to part of this but I think I get what you mean lol

[1GoldTwins]

For example a friend was jobless and down on himself and I allowed him to stay at my place, but he had to do whatever I said or he had to leave. And he stayed with me for 8 months until

[ArtemisSilver]

I do, but you have to be careful or you'll trigger a bratty incident with some women. You've got to feel out the vibe and time/phrase it well.