What do you do when your partner loves to sleep and there are no midnight conversations?

[Anonymous]

2 years relationship. LDR temperorly. She need to sleep by 11.30 and wake up early. We lack the romantic midnight talks in a relationship.

From past few weeks I'm busy with work and family till 11.30. And our daily conversation happens only through chat and Maximum 5-10 mins call during day time. She cannot control her sleep or is not trying to.

What can I do? I already told her that we're not getting time for deep conversations. She said she's getting so sleepy by 11 and have to wakeup early.

Don't you think a long term relationship need some midnight talks and such romantic things at early stage?

[Anonymous]

how long have you been together?

maybe she is really sleepy and needs to wake up early. maybe she is a morning person. you have to talk to her. you both have to understand each other.

[Asker]

Thanks for the opinion :) For 2 years. Yes she's living in a hostel and breakfast is at 7 am. She have to wakeup early. This routine is same for everyday. Without sacrificing her sleep for once in a while, midnight talk won't happen..

[Redstang88]

Some people need to be up early 🤷‍♂️
What’s wrong with talking at a reasonable time?

[Asker]

Umm you're right.. but midnight gives a different vibe for romantic talks, right?

[Redstang88]

Not really