I think we can fall in love yet fall out of love at any point; But I also believe love is different for everyone and if 2 can be in love its the efforts contributed by both parties that can make it survive the longest or even for ever!
I guess it's safe to assume I believe in happily ever after...
Love is not an emotion, love is an action. You make the choice to love someone. The problem here is that people often confuse infatuation with love. The sensation of falling in love is really just a chemical possess that affects your brain and the way you see someone, you're flooded with endorphins, adrenaline, oxytocin, in the honeymoon phase that lasts about 6 months to 2 years, after the honeymoon phase ends you are left seeing that person through a much more clearer lens and the things that you don't really like about them that you overlooked in the beginning all of a sudden matter.
Wow, how did YOU get a hot question, I wish MINE got frequent hot questions haha.
Also, maybe. I don't know. But I think in life, what matters more is the actions of a person, not just the words. Especially if they are not disabled, a vegetable, etc. They're not mute or something majorly wrong with them!
I agree, thus is why I said we can make our love last the longest by investing our efforts in the relationship!
Loving a person is more than just a sentiment it's a complex of actions the attention to the other person the comfort of being with them facing life together but most important it goes both ways around no one deserves to be pouring their soul into someone who doesn't even try to meet them halfway...
I say different kinds of love because every relationship has it's own norms and rythme.
I really love what you said.. thanks for sharing :)
*no idea how they selecte most of my questions but maybe it's about if the question sounds interesting or something!
Thank you Lilas. Reading what you wrote, believe it or not, actually put a tear to my eye. I am going through a bad break up right now. Reading your second paragraph pretty much cemented why leaving him was the very best decision to do. ...
Source: My ex-drug addict, who got hit by a car TWICE, homeless, jerk no good whom I fell in love with and accidentally made memories with! He was just too selfish to be able to see my needs and didn't care to meet them. It was a total words vs. actions not matching for the most part!
You gave your all, and supported him the way you knew you could but there is nothing that you could've done to change a person that's alway up to them and their will...
I hope you'd soon find a gem of a man who deserves you and brings the best of you and vice versa ❤️
True love, such as love for ones pet or parents, is indeed eternal not because we are attached to those we love, but because love itself is what makes up our whole being. Even the most negative of persons holds love within him, it creates the world. The dessert fathers, Christian ascetics who lived in the dessert, lived they way they did because of their love for the Divine. Few can come close to this level of love, I and most if not everyone on this forum is spiritually impoverished compared to them.
I believe love dies without sacrifice and service, I know people who had lasting love, but they were all sacrificial and served their family or their God or their careers.
Love is not there after death, but be alive it as you want it for now tho,
Or though love is a good thing to experience, it's the kissing key to a peaceful life on earth and is only needed on earth as you have a purpose to reproduce and train as well.
Love is not eternal. If it is there wouldn't be so many people voting no because it's 100% fail-safe. I love a girl for around more than 10 years. During that time, she dated me twice and 7 or 8 other guys. I had enough of that bullshjt and that alone proves that my love is not eternal.
Love is only eternal when you find the right one and don't have the replacing mindset so many today have. The best way to find true love is to be a virgin as your pairbonding is at its highest capacity and to be open about what you want and what he wants from you.
Work on issues and don't be the reason for the other persons headache.
No such thing as eternal love all people grow and change and change their minds and no person is perfect and makes lots of mistakes so to vow your love is eternal for a single person in a single moment of time is foolish. But you can vow to try to love everyone equally no matter what we are all brothers and sisters on this earth
Exactly. I LOVED someone with all my heart and they just up and crushed it. So much for "Love". I don't want it if it's only going to hurt me in the end!
What's worse is I waited for this guy for at minimum four years. Four years I will never get that back. Maybe his ex wife was right about him being an asshole all along.
God. I gave this guy my pussy, my time, my emotions, not to mention my heart. And this is how he does me...
In my experience, all “love” is temporary. There’s talk of and a belief in “soul mates” though. Maybe i missed out on that. If so, maybe there IS eternal love. However, not all love is eternal. That is certain.
In my opinion, from personal experience, the ones who love you or claim to never have second thoughts to drop you like you never existed. So I am untrusting to love because I'm always waiting for the shoe to drop as it always has no matter how much I'd do or go out of my way to prevent it. Cruddy feeling to have everyday.
Say in your lifetime you found love twice, I don't think finding it twice means you weren't in love with the first time nor that you can compare both relationships or the way you loved both individuals...
God's law saying love works no ill to your neighbour is eternal. The existence of money and legal system are making people to not keep that law. They that give people fire in word and deed will see God as he is as fire.
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