I know not everyone is ever busy to see people the love. But I have tasks to do this Saturday and he says “ I don’t want to go out Sunday “ . We see each other twice, sometimes three times a week. It hurts my feelings when he gets in a mood. Just because I can’t go out or feel too much morning sickness to go out
It’s selfish of him to disregard your priorities outside of your relationship, and he should definitely try to be more understanding rather than guilting you. The next time he does that, I would not respond. He wants you to be upset as well, so he acts outwardly childish about his mood so you can feel just as bad. If you firmly tell him you have errands, or aren’t feeling good, and stop over apologizing about it, eventually he will see that he isn’t getting the reaction he wants and would likely stop complaining when you tell him of your sickness/plans/errands/etc. I know you don’t want to hurt him but you need to set healthy boundaries, which is not mean.
There are times we are compatible with others and other times that we are not ; romantic , friendshiply , family , or neighbourly.
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