Men what would make you want another woman?

[Jayjay1234567890]

Imagine this:

You have a quite good life
Good job
A pretty wife
Sex 3-4 times a week
Kids
Quite quality time with kids and wife

Wife relationship with your family is good, she takes care of the kids well, she loves you and treats you like her baby. Initiates sex most of the time. Changes her looks every now and then.
Your wife has a bit of a mental issue she's trying to work it out with a therapist ( anxiety and depression ). You preferred a woman that knew how to cooke, your wife tries for a while ( sometimes ok sometimes not ) until she cuts herself, so you say its ok not to cooke anymore seeing that she doesn't like it and hire a cooke.

As a general man who wanted to start a family from the beginning, would you look for another woman when this is your situation?

[caring__1]

It sounds like you are asking why your man left you. By presenting your perspective, no one can tell what his perspective is. People often are so focused on their own perspective they don't consider how the other person might be experiencing the situation. What works for one won't work for all. What people say here is irrelevant. If you truly want to understand, let the guy who left you know you are working on yourself and want to see yourself through his eyes, so you can improve as a potential partner. Without knowing his specific perspective, all you can do is guess. When we guess, we tend to focus on one extreme or the other, but it rarely has much to do with reality.

[Effably]

Yoi're shooting yourself in the foot here by being specific to the point it appears as you are talking about yourself and then asking two different questions:

Would I, given this situation, look for another woman? Absolute not - assuming we love and care for each other.

What would make me? A lot of things might. But they are not useful for you to hear. More importantly they are not likely, only small things that could happen which depending on things might make me. For example if the feelings stopped.

[Lenell]

Marrying the wrong woman. But sometimes someone you like better comes along later but then its too late. Thats commitment. Maturity. Thats why i have held out ao long. I can't be around pantyhose especially if she's in heels and shoeplaying with her feet ill die so i need a woman that gives me a love show at home that way i want need to look elswhere. Incase i am unable to resist i would literally remove myself from her presence but as long as my wife of girlfriend does it for me at home rhat shouldn't be an issue.

[Circlesgames]

Lack of CONTROL being married or in a relationship.

A true man, will stay with you sis, don't be sad for long, everything will be better someday, if he is being this way to you, don't fight with him everytime, it's not helping your mental health, if its possible try to focus on getting better, worry less about a lost man, focus on the kids, pray he will come back, but majorly focus on your health

[Jayjay1234567890]

He didn't cheat nor there are signs. I just wonder sometimes wether he has a reason or not. He's really kind and tip toes around me with his words so i dont know whats going on inside his head

[Circlesgames]

Ooh that 😂, that's normal sis, you see it happens to guys too when their girl is just being too lovey dovey sometimes, u wonder is it real, are they faking, sometimes they might be a bit carried away with something in their phone but when back to u it's all lovey dovey, belive me he has no reason to be two timing you, even if he did its a normal temptation that comes to a man's head but he shakes it off easily and normally,
So no his not thinking of such, maybe his just praying the day you will be OK, or maybe you just feel his too good to be true, u know?

[Circlesgames]

And sis, your question could make you get a wrong answer, you should be more specify in questions choose ryt words for them, so they don't mislead you out here online

[Jayjay1234567890]

Yeah I got that😅, thank you so much for your reply

[Anonymous]

Sex only 3-4 times a week, no cooking, and mental issues. You cut yourself so you don’t cook anymore? How would you survive camping? Must learn to cook. Must have more sex. Anxiety and depression? What is that? Why do you have it? It’s such a broad generalization. How is it affecting the relationship? There is a lot more I could ask but from the small amount of detail there may be some unhappiness. Best thing to do is talk with husband about what’s wrong and what can be fixed. Go to counseling together. You have kids it’s important to stay together as a family for the kids sake. The kids will have a much happier life with both parents.

[MelvinGeek]

I've already made the commitment by marrying her and having kids.

Usually when I date someone, I would date them for AT LEAST a year in order to know the ups and downs. If I ended up marrying her, faults and all, then that is the commitment I made and I will to stand behind that. If not for me, then for the children.

Also, I don't mind cooking if she doesn't know how to cook. It's not THAT hard.

[FilmGuy93]

The only way I would ever want another woman is if the woman I'm currently with was being chronically abusive/neglectful and refusing to be a partner.

[SiberFox]

If cooking is the issue, I'd either cook with her or take cooking lessons with her. Either way I'll help with the cooking.

[DavidRaul]

I don't think i would want another woman. I will help her with her issues. Cooking is not a problem.

[Zolly99999]

The woman you described is great.. no one is perfect and if she is trying to improve herself then I would never want another woman..

[KrakenAttackin]

This would be a great woman to be with. No, I would not seek another woman.

[mr4435669]

I would look for a younger woman.