How do tell him to straighten up before I break up with him?

[gegevill]

My boyfriend of 6 months has been weird with me recently and I don’t know what to do I recently stayed at his house for almost a month because a relative of mine had Covid and his mom and sister wanted me to stay longer so did he ever since I got back he’s always busy so busy that by the time I can talk to him it’s time to sleep before I left he wanted me to come to the fair with him in September but I talk to him tonight and he said that I stayed to long last time and he didn’t even want to go to the fair anymore but we would go to the pumpkin patch in October now I feel awkward and don’t even want to go to his house anymore and every time I tell him I’m sad he just ignores it because he said he doesn’t want to start problems but it’s the problems he caused and then he get mad that I’m upset then we’re both upset but he has no right to be upset I feel like he’s just manipulating me or something I’m just so done

[Circlesgames]

OK, to do this, you just need to be different, be cool, play like you don't care anymore, u don't have to use the break up card, it's a bad way of things, what if he actually leaves this time and that's not what u wanted, not what u prepared for, unless its what ur prepared for then go ahead with that way but its dangerous.

Also it's immature people that use lines like let's break up to fix situations or make others fall into their own hands, I did that and honestly had to fix that,

Your going through an issue now in your relationship, people will be telling you to break up, he doesn't want you, stupid comments and suggestions, those telling you these, trust me they have been through several relationships... That's not a good thing don't you get it?

So use other ways to fix the issue, he has faults, it could be its just his character, you too someday in the future will have something his against, start the dice rolling, so he knows how you handle things he will learn from you and not want to also use let's breakup as a means to fix situations, talking from experience.

Solution -

Act different not mad, not annoyed but even more mind blowing and scary... Act cool about everything. He did not follow you to the event as planned, just say-baby (or what you call him as) you didn't go with me to the event we planned, that's cool am not offended-

Trust me, from time to time u keep being cool, his going to be scared of what in the hell you actually have in your mind, if he tries to start an argument or discussion... Anything he says juat say OK, yh, or use limited cool words like that's true I get you, if he said he was sick or down the other day, ooh sorry how is your health, you OK now? yh, then you leave the arguments alone, do this untill your ready to open up to him about his mistakes,

Please don't use he, use we, for example you guys didn't go, you could say we didn't go to the event yesterday baby, you forgot and I also didn't remind you hoping you will remember... This will make him feel respect for you even if he doesn't show it, if he is a strong head let me know, I have a fix for broken heads

[gegevill]

Thank you that’s actually really good advice

[Circlesgames]

Thank you, please feel free to ask for more help if it doesn't work as I love anythjng love and relationships

[Circlesgames]

Hey sis, did it work?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like he lived with you and his 1 month experience living with you made him realize he doesn’t want to be with you. I don't know the fact you moved into his house just because your relative got Covid sounds crazy as hell. It’s just the flu. If you are vaccinated it’s not like Ebola. But maybe it’s good you guys realize it won’t work out early than to figure it out later.

[gegevill]

I never moved in with him I only planned to stay a week and after after the family member I live with got Covid I didn’t want to get it I even sat down with him and talked about it and he said he wanted me to stay that he loved having me there with him

[Opinion Owner]

Well you said he didn’t like you staying too long so something happened during that short stay.

[HelloImGoodThanks]

From what you wrote it sounds like it is possible he no longer wants to be with you

[gegevill]

But he’s always saying he loves me and wants to be with me so it confusing me

[HelloImGoodThanks]

Actions speak louder than words. If he is saying he loves you but he isn't showing it best believe his actions. There are so many people out there that say they love someone but deep down they are just saying those words for the sake of it. Earlier I was watching this video online and they were talking about a bride who realised she didn't love the man she just married during their first dance as husband and wife.

[AviatorTom]

If you're breaking up with him, don't tell him anything. Just go away.

[gegevill]

Was thinking about this one

[_Roc_]

I you want his attention tell him I wanna break up. If he tries to make things alright it means he is worthy. Otherwise you will be saving yourself from a sink

[gegevill]

If I tell him this he will start to cry I’ve made him cry before to try and put things right

[_Roc_]

Sorry but
Time For some tears again

[gegevill]

Period

[GlassTop]

U are an idiot with terrible advice 😂

[_Roc_]

get the fuck away from my opinion

[landingout2]

its fake

C19

is not real

[Anonymous]

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