I don't get it?

[Anonymous]

Why would a female (my wife) deny me access to her phone the one time I asked to see it, and I only asked because we were arguing about something and I seen that she was way more into her phone and not listening after I let her have her argument so I asked what was so important? Well at first she agreed to let me see it right after she did something and she scrolled up and down chat log and then said no because you are gonna break my phone and I said you can hold mine but she wasn't gonna let me see it so fine fuck it.
So if she doesn't want me going through her phone then why does she go through mine every chance she gets while I'm sleeping or I left my phone in the car the other day and when she got back it said SD cars was removed... wtf?
So why woulda person be likethat?

[jst4fun]

Seems like she’s hiding something, she’s guilty of something. In my experience, I gave my ex the benefit of the doubt, telling myself I was crazy for just thinking the worst. We’ll time prevailed, and my suspicions were correct and he was guilty himself of doing me dirty. I’d say if she’s going for bonus points, if she often accuses you of cheating, lying etc… it basically strengthens my claim she’s up to something, she’s hiding something. Guaranteed. Ask yourself how you’d handle the situation if you were to find out for certain that she was seeing someone else. How about possibly if you knew the other guy as a friend. What would you do about it? Blindly going into a situation like that is so fucked up, so I’d say prepare yourself. I’d say there’s a pretty small chance I’m incorrect. It’s easy to lie to your self in these types of situations. Good luck man. Defend your self, but don’t embarrass your self in the likely case of betrayal. Don’t let her see you cry either if at all possible.

[Asker]

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So wa I pretty much know in the back of my head that this is the case and I need to just accept it as it appears and wish her the best and walk away... thank you for your opinion.

[Anonymous]

I suggest you Google the signs of a cheater. It will open your eyes.

[Guy13]

Hiding something...

[Guy13]

Dude, it seems like she is stepping out on you. And checks yours so hard because she knows she is doing wrong. I do not know because I am not there... seems that way though?