How would you feel if your partner was contacting their ex frequently (weekly) without telling you?

[Anonymous]

and your relationship has lasted longer with you then the relationship your partner had with their ex, however you started dating them with a few days of their breakup, is this a rebound relationship even though we have dated for over a year?

[Beatrix7]

well my ex is talking to me and hanging out with me and his new girlfriend doesn't know he cheated on me with her i had to contact her a dont lovd him anymore he would just cheat again a dont even know why but if it was my boyfriend talking to his ex it he got back with me i would hate it because my ex is the kinda guy who sleeps with any girk that admires him he's to big headed he bids on attention he even got a one night stand girl pregnant and she had a miscarige wiles sleeping with me and the other girl he cheated on me with who is his girlfriend the now thats when i suppose to be his girlfriend and she was supoise to be his girlfriend we had to talk me and her she wemt with him a told her to watch him but if it was someone like my ex naa dont trust him to stay friends with a ex he will make her become a ex to have sex

[Anonymous]

That’s really inappropriate. If you’ve been with her longer than the ex then I don't know if it’s exactly a rebound, because usually that situation has no longevity. It does give the impression that she still has feelings for him, like maybe she didn’t really want to breakup in the first place or something. Regardless, it shouldn’t be happening, especially not secretly and I’d encourage her current partner to leave her.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Thank god I’m single and don’t have the deal with that mess. People are soo sloppy.