So me an my boyfriend got into a fight and were talking it out a few days after. I listened to how my words and actions made him feel and i empathized but when i told him how i felt in thag sutuation he says i'm making it all about me. Was i being selfush when i said no when he wanted to check if i slept with a giy friend that brought me home when he gad to cancel and i was left stranded in the middke of the night. Of course i know the guy likes me but it should be a big deal since nth happened abd i got home safe. then he asked me to sleep with him to 'check' and mske i was serious about the relationship. I am a virgin just putting it out there and i felt totally violated in thst situstion by someone i thought i coild trust snd he's still mad about it. I stayed late at the library after watching a movie with my fruebdsvand he said hevwould come get but told me he couldn't anymore after everyone left i had no other ride home options should i have slept in the library? Seems like i shouud have
Am I being selfish?
