I cheated on boyfriend with our mutual friend...should I tell him? (Page 2)
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thing like this all was come out but no one can tell you what to do hear but your boyfriend my dump up over this but what you did hear was wrong and you need to tell your boyfriend what you have done hear and have to deal with what ever happen with you and your boyfriend It was a real bad idea to have sex with a friend with some one you both know. good luck hear you are going to need it
your grammar and spelling is really bad but your answer was like second best :)
well thanks what did I miss spell my grammar is because I did not put in . and , it that it lol let me know what happens lol
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thanks I was trying to go real fast and I see what you are talking about now hear and mite lol hope I help some
nobody is saying something about making mistakes. everyone makes mistakes. you are right. people here are just saying that the right thing to do is to be honest to your boyfriend that you made a mistake. honesty is a good quality. you shouldn't be scared of it or feel that people here are trying to do you in or make you feel bad. they are giving you good advise. even you will agree that speaking the truth is the right thing to do. won't u? it is for your own good. trust me.
I wouldn't tell him as long as I'm absolutely POSTIVE that the guy I slept with won't run his mouth then j see no need to tell him. If your relationship is going to end, then let it be on a good note and let him still have respect for you at the end of the day,you'll be hurting him more by telling him.
thats if she breaks up with him and refuses to take him back
yes but you did this on purpose sunshine. take responsibility at least. Don't insult the poor guy by saying "it just happened". Sex doesn't "just happen". A brief kiss maybe - but anything further you both must take responsibility.
also - you say we're discouraging - what did you expect?
You didn't just kiss some random guy by accident in a drunken state for half a minute - you had full sex with his friend!
dont write this off.
what are you looking for a medal? you've not only ruined you're relationship and destroyed this guy, but you've also ruined his friendship with the mutual guy. I hope he wipes you both from his life. Of course you have to tell him. Not telling him would make you an even worse person than you already are.
Do something honest here, tell him, then brake up with him. And never ask to go back to him.
Are you blaming him for you smoking weed and cheating on him? That's a stupid rationalization. Be a mature adult and control yourself however you need to. How's that for a brilliant solution?
you are a bitch, at least you had a chance to be with a good guy. You make it hard for nice girls like me to get a man to trust her. You should be in my spot because you are someone who actually does not deserve a guys trust.
blah blah stop blaming your pathetic miserable loneliness on others bitch
@ updates: You R ONE BIG WHORE. GOD PLEASE SAVE THAT GUY FROM THE CLUTCHES OF THIS SELFISH CHEATING LYING BITCH.
lol what a crazy bitch. I'm not any of those things..sh*t happens and no one is perfect.
tell him don't you think his friend will eventually you need to tell him stop thinking about yourself and think of his feelings he has the right to know weather or not he leaves you is his decision your the one who f***ed up not him
But the problem is you cheated on him, there for you need to suck it up and tell him. So lets say that you ended up pregnant would it be easier to tell him now that you had sex with another guy now or when you have a child and you have to say by the way theirs a chance its not yours?
im not gonna get pregnant OK. if that happens then its another story
Do you think you at least owe him an apology for stealing his weed?
ha you are blaming him because it was his weed ROTFLMAO! That's like someone shooting another person and blaming their friend because it was their gun. What a joke. ha
u will get back whatever evil things you do to others... life always comes a full circle. a person who bases his/her happiness on other people's hurt can never remain happy. unfortunately you want to learn these things the harder way. go ahead
You need to tell him. Not telling him just makes things worse down the line. He's going to find out eventually, it's hard to keep these things under wraps.
@update, because if you do what these other answers are telling you and just leave him, that's just as sh*tty. He's going to want to know why you left him. A person doesn't just watch someone leave like that without wondering why. If you keep him in the dark or tell him some other reason, then you'd still be lying to him.
i don't know which is worse, cheating or dishonesty. It's going to be bad if you tell him, worse if he finds out
Yes, spouses can work through things, and SHOULD, but they can't if there is secrecy and dishonesty. If you really want to work through everything, your relationship should be transparent
hey, hey, hey.. calm down. just smoke some more weed and chill. You don't have to tell him, but don't get all pissed off when people tell you what they think. You asked a question, you got answers
Dont ask the question if you're not prepared to hear the answers babes...
Hey, I'm just gonna go inside your kitchen and take one of your knives and stab someone, but technically it's also your fault because its your knife.
PLEASE
you don't really deserve to be with him. I would end it and not really tell him the real reason unless he needs closure. I don't see how you could cheat on someone you really "love"
it's girls like you that make want to stay single.
are you sure its not that you have no experience with girls and are afraid of approaching them that makes you stay single? :)
They're only a minority. Most girls won't do this.
i have plenty of experience, I go out of my way to avoid bitches like you.
lol the question asker is a idiot she assumes because you won't date girls like her you can't get any there is something called standards and some people have some
LOL!
That's definitely not right. You need to tell your boyfriend about it. Cheating is never OK. With that said , your relationship with your boyfriend obviously isn't going to be the same.