Girls, Why do you nowadays hate nice/good guys? (Page 2)

Anonymous · 2022-10-18T12:12:00Z

Almost every woman around me seems to hate good guys nowadays. I get comments like "guys like you are only good after thirty", and "I am a not-so-good girl, you will be better with a good girl". I was like this forever, during high school I used to volunteer in medical camps in school and outside remote area camps. During college and even now I have worked with many animal shelters, teaching in schools in remote areas, work with blind and deaf people. Most women here and on other social media post about how much they hate nice guys. Heard friends saying most girls want guys who are bad to everyone but only good to them. Guys and friends who do drugs , and roam around in cars/bikes every day, seem to have no issues with women. Even the so-called good girls are attracted to them even if they know that they already have girlfriends. Most girls see guys like me as boring for my personality but I tend to have other creative hobbies and they are never enough with my personality. I am hating the idea that everyone just wanna settle with me after 30 but doesn't see me as a dating option when they are young. I am 26 now.

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I don't hate them... but a nice guy is either a actual nice guy with no spine... or a nice guy who's trying too hard. Either one is something I don't wanna put up with.

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I don’t hate them. I guess I’m still trying to find the right one. You just need to come across the right girl perhaps and I’m sure you will.

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Buy a good backpack and travel around the world. You’ll learn a lot.

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  Brilliant... I absolutely love this.
  
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  @EmmaMary Thank you 😎 I wouldn’t mind doing that myself right now.
  
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I don’t think girls hate guys who are really nice. But the good news is that even if you’re right (and I don’t think you are) you’re only four years away from a lot of girls wanting to date you.

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  That would be counter-intuitive, it will not be love.
  
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  It might be true love. You have as much chance of finding it as anybody.
  
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Steamnir Follow
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Because there aren't guys that are actually "good", we are all bad at something whether women or men, we dont like men with no confident of themselves, beside define a good guy and a bad guy?

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I reject the premise

@PrettyPriya he's back lol

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I stir away from both nice guys and bad boys. They're on the extremes, which is very problematic. I prefer a mix, and if you identify with either, goodbye.

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It takes more than just being nice. Also why are you chasing bad girls? Just date a nice girl

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  If you are inferring from my reference, then I didn't know she was good/bad beforehand. She appeared okay, and after talking for a while she told me that.
  
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Most girls are not nice and they don't get along with nice guys. Girls tend to look nice on the outside but they're bad on the inside

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  Yes, I am well aware of that. I have paid price for being nice to a girl. She was a friend and one day asked for my help saying she got raped. Later it turned out consensual sex and love triangle stuff. I had to face problems helping her with officials.
  
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Because guys who come out and caim "I'm a good guy" are just trying to cover up that they're like men who claim to be "alpha males". And as soon as they don't get what they want the nice guy act leaves

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