Boxing match in 2 days girlfriend wants to watch what should I do?

[Anonymous]

i am not so professional boxer , i have joined a gym?/club where people can box and i love boxing so i usually go there and box people. I have a girlfriend and she used to didn't like me boxing until she came to saw the last match. So what happened was she was free that afternoon and when i proceeded to the club she asked if she could come and watch and i said sure. now that match was pretty fair but i lost in the end and never have i ever find myself humiliated it's like i can't even describe how bad i felt because she was there to witness it. In the end it was pretty bad as i took 5-7 gut punches and as i was taking it i could see her face and her expression was like after 3rd punch she closed her eyes and turned a little and he knocked me out with a hook and jab combined so it was pretty bad. she did'nt said anything but that was pretty suprising like why did she did that she just said you're okay and i said yes and then we returned home and it was like normal although i felt humiliated. now the thing is i already said yes to a fight in coming days and she wants to watch that too and i'm pretty sure i'll get more badly beaten because this opponent is the best in the club and i don't want to get more badly beaten in front of her. but my main question is why has she changed so much like after seeing me get beaten she should've stopped me more but now she wants to watch it. i don't get it what's going on.

[RavVid]

At a pub I have see an event billed as Rock and Rumble which was free style wrestling while rock music was played. There was one girl who was really getting off on seeing men fight. You could have waved your hand in front of her face and she would not have noticed.

In my city the less affluent side are called Westies and the girls there expect men to fight. It is more primal and earthy. So I think it is a mistake to think girls have a strong feminine revulsion to watching men fight. Some of the little darlings love it. Especially in lower economic strata. I know a guy who won a girlfriend by beating up her other suitors.

There has been about 2 million years of evolution where girls have evolved a predilection for men who can protect them and can beat up other men.

So it doesn't surprise me your girlfriend has discovered a liking for seeing men beating up other men. Hopefully she didn't like seeing you get beaten up but I assume there were other matches she enjoyed.

[Guy13]

Give her keys 🔑 to your car 🚘 so she can get you to Hospital 🏥

[Jess_D]

Well I’d say it takes a lot of guts to get in the ring or octagon or whatever combat sport you are involved in. So you have no reason to be ashamed at all. I used to watch my brother box and it was tough to see him getting hit. He didn’t always win but he always held his head up high. If she wants to support you, then you should let her.

[cheeky_starfish]

@Jess_D Interesting answer 🤔 I’m in a very similar situation. I will be competing in a kickboxing grading event very soon and this girl I’ve recently started dating wants to come and watch me compete. Can I PM you about this by any chance?

[Jess_D]

@cheeky_starfish sure if you want.

[cheeky_starfish]

@Jess_D Oh, thanks 🙂 because of your PM settings I’ll need you to either follow me or send me a message that I can reply to? Thanks 😊