Isn't it just the thought and consideration that matter or am I doing too much?

I developed Gastritis. I literally cannot eat anything but bland food and veeery small meals. I am not going to be attending Thanksgiving this year bc that would just make me miserable watching everybody eat whatever they want, especially when there will be no food for me. Instead of him asking me, "would you want me to stay home this year for Thanksgiving with you?", he is gonna go have Thanksgiving with him family.

It's the thought that counts. Of course I'd let him go to his family. But I feel like he just doesn't care. He's taking my Gastritis so lightly and told me to "just get used to it". like wtf. Eating bland food isn't fun when I rather want to eat something else.

I told him how I felt and he said "why would I be forced to hang with you for Thanksgiving and do nothing with you?" Pretty harsh...

Isn't it just the thought and consideration that matter or am I doing too much?
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