Isn't it just the thought and consideration that matter or am I doing too much?

[Leslieblah]

I developed Gastritis. I literally cannot eat anything but bland food and veeery small meals. I am not going to be attending Thanksgiving this year bc that would just make me miserable watching everybody eat whatever they want, especially when there will be no food for me. Instead of him asking me, "would you want me to stay home this year for Thanksgiving with you?", he is gonna go have Thanksgiving with him family.

It's the thought that counts. Of course I'd let him go to his family. But I feel like he just doesn't care. He's taking my Gastritis so lightly and told me to "just get used to it". like wtf. Eating bland food isn't fun when I rather want to eat something else.

I told him how I felt and he said "why would I be forced to hang with you for Thanksgiving and do nothing with you?" Pretty harsh...

[Guy13]

I’ve got your Solution. Please take a moment to get through full dietary listing.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/zyLf7iZGoqY

[Leslieblah]

huh?

[Guy13]

Never mind. Have a good Thursday.

[Sparkie460]

The right thing for him to do would tell his family that both of you will not be attending Thanksgiving this year out of respect for you. Even if you told him he should go, he should refuse and spend Thanksgiving with you so you aren't alone.

[Leslieblah]

Right he’s been going every year and hasn’t missed since.. I know what he’s not thankful for.

[Sparkie460]

Have you tried taking prescription medication to help your gastritis? I have the same problem and my doctor prescribed propantazol.

[Leslieblah]

No I recently got a endoscopy done and my gi doctor told me to just cut off acidic and spicy food but didn’t prescribe anything.. I was thinking of visiting my primary doctor next month if nothing gets better, I don't know tbh

[Leslieblah]

Hope you get better!

[Sparkie460]

I had an endoscopy and colonoscopy. I was taking pepcid 3 times a day. My doctor told me to take propantazol. He said I'll be on it for life

[Leslieblah]

Hmmmm don’t think like that. Look up “ the Gastritis Healing Book” you literally have to cut off a lot of foods off. Im sorry !!

[Sparkie460]

I was told to cut out coffee which I can't do.

I hope he decides to come to his senses and stay home with you on Thanksgiving.

[Leslieblah]

Yeah coffee would be a no go. And thank you..