You ever been in a relationship with someone that is constantly stressed about things and takes it out on you?

[Finchie40]

They are only happy when things are
Going good but turn to a complete asshole the second something doesn’t go their way, and of course they target you and ruin your day. and shit on your parade , i was in a relationship with a girl that was constant negative and always stressed out about something , she would say hurtful things pretty much to the point I would walk away , she then would chase me back being all sweet and loving again , I would tell her to seek help for her negativity and anger and told her I am not tolerating this shit and being a constant punching bag , I dealt with this shit with my ex so I don’t tolerate this behavior much anymore , I understand people have bad days and people
Tend to take it out on someone they care about but I don’t Tolerate it for long anymore
Am I wrong? How much negativity and stress do you tolerate from someone that claims they love you but have a hard time showing it cuz they are constantly stressed out and Take shit out on you and point fingers at you and say hurtful things that make you reconsider the relationship with them?

[bubblegunnn]

Yeah, my ex did it once - 2 times, i can understand he was in anger, and i wouldn't start another war, i left him instead.. and then if his mood and his mind clear, i talked to him what he did was wrong

[Finchie40]

My thing is if you are that unhappy in life then go live your selfish life and let me be, I am tired of giving
My heart to a girl that turns around and just shits on it , When someone is that negative it makes you wonder if they are up to no good? Are
They interested in someone else? Are they cheating on you? So much negativity just points to bad things , I don’t get into a relationship with someone to bring hell into their lives , If I am bringing hell into your life then you are best to go and move on and set me free , but people bottom line are selfish and only really care about themselves, they will string you along for their selfishness and back stab you like you deserve it , playing a victim when really
They are the piece of shit , I have so many walls up protecting my heart these days that it’s hard for me to really believe in love , I feel social media played a big part in damaging relationships and trust in each other , A girl can tell me she loves me but secretly behind my back she is being a whore , I want a girl that values me and just wants me like I do her , I am not the type of guy that runs around sticking my dick in random girls , to me that is dirty and degrading , but if she constantly makes me feel like I am not good enough for her then there is A good possibility that I might be drawn to someone else , and I hate that feeling cuz then I feel like I am the one being selfish Her negativity and constant stress is to much to handle, I’m sorry your life isn’t going like you assumed it will go but don’t bring me down to your level , I am stressed as well with things in life but I don’t constantly take it out on someone I love and care about to me that is abuse , If I make you that unhappy then go find someone else to put up with your shit , If needing space from me and making plans without me makes you happy then you are best to stay single because I can easily do the same
Thing , It has nothing to do with insecurities it comes down to respect

[bubblegunnn]

That make sense if those reasons of why someone being negative.. i agree when u say socmed is a big part in damaging relationship, thats true..

[NathanDavis]

no... I am very selective

[Anonymous]

Thankfully no, and I hope I never am either.

[Agape93]

Unfortunately