Girls, I want vengeance on a girl who took my 3-year ongoing crush. How do I do it when nobody even knows I like him?

[Anonymous]

So in fourth grade this new student moved to my school and I liked him ever since. Now we're in seventh grade and in B-class together. However, recently a girl from A-class broke up with her B-class boyfriend and is now with my crush! The problem is not a single person knows I like him and if they did they probably wouldn't like that. He seems like a nice person to me and I trust him but I don't want to ruin our growing friendship. Also I am quiet and why and not so popular. But I just can't seem to let him go, and I am suffering from a desire for vengeance on this girl caused by jealousy. Not a day goes by that a think of my crush— and him with another girl. I'm not regretting seeking revenge, but I can't stand how many people approve of what's going on (yes, even the girl's ex likes it). Help me! I liked him first! What do I do?

[SueShe]

First thing, you got to contact GaG administrators to correct your age that you "wrongly" inserted as being in the age group 25-29. This is misleading. You can contact GaG here and ask them to correct your age

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/contact

Now, to your question. There is no ideal solution and certainly, seeking revenge is the wrong approach. You don't want to be involved with something like that because what goes around comes around. Sooner or later, others will find out and then what? You will place yourself in such a situation that you wish you could move away.

Best is to forget about your crush. I mean, you are probably not older than 14-15 and those things happen. It is a learning process and you will get over it. Unfortunately, with age, you will realize that this may happen more often than you would like.

The best thing is to move on and get busy with your studies rather than with boys.

[Anonymous]

It's not worth it. Move on.