Do you think you can fully trust your partner?

[Finchie40]

With social media playing a big part on damaging relationships and everyone pretty much glued to their phones , Do you think you can fully trust your partner if you are in a relationship? I know every time I come on the internet there is always shit about if your partner is doing this that means they are probably doing that? , Every girl cheats every guy just wants to fuck etc. social media feeds are heads with useless knowledge that makes most people doubt what they have with someone , So do you think you can fully trust your partner? Everywhere I go I hear horror stories of people cheating and betraying their partners so what would it take for you to fully trust your partner if this is the shit we feed our heads with? Most affairs occur in workplaces so that means your partner is falling in love with someone at work while you are at work , When your partner goes out with friends they are having sex with someone else , How do you feel comfortable in a relationship with all these things shoved in our faces?

[Guy13]

It’s not can. It is Must or just GTFO with your pet or hug doll stuff animal. If one is afraid of a little pain, poor decisions, perfect woman, “hate that B, etc emotionality then go back to your cave and stay there 😎…do us all a favor 🤷🏻‍♂️

[DCowboy4747]

It varies from person to person, some have been burnt or hurt more than others. I would guess that the level of trust you can and will put in your partner will be decided by your past experiences. For me, I giver everyone the same level of trust when I first meet them, it is their actions after the initial meeting that determines if the level of trust goes up or down. I have been burnt a few times, so I would have to be in a solid relationship for a while before I would fully trust my new partner. I hope this answers your question.

[sage2021]

Hell No! I don't trust him any further than I can see him, and even then, he takes his cellphone in the bathroom for hours at a time when he's home. And yes, the internet invites porn and dating sites anytime you want them. After all, he's a guy!!

[MovieManiac]

Not wanting to take his side, just my case. It normally takes me about 30min-1h between the moment I enter the bathroom to poop and the moment I leave. In this span of time, I spend only 1-3 minutes really pooping, the rest of it I'm scrolling through phone or reading a book.

It's rare for me to watch porn in the bathroom as the smell is not very pleasant and I don't like the idea of my penis touching the toilet.

I don't know if you are against your boyfriend watching porn, but taking the smartphone to the bathroom and leaving 1 hour after is not a sign he's up to something fishy at all.

[Sasha0426]

I take my phone in the bathroom because it helps me relax if I have to take a 💩 And yes, I do get distracted for a long time where my legs fall asleep 🤣

[Finchie40]

I hate when my legs fall asleep taking a shit lol , I take my phone with me as well to the bathroom cuz I play games while
Taking a shit pretty much why my legs fall asleep lol But if he is going in there for hours at a time then I can see that raising questions of concern if he keeps disappearing into the bathroom. people that need to hide things are already cheating is the way I look at it , smart phones and social media definitely caused havoc in most relationships , every time I go on social media I always see things that target relationships and things that make you doubt someone , if your partner is doing this that means they are doing this etc.. feeding our heads with doubts that our partner’s are up to no good and making it harder to trust someone , Everybody is a cheater pretty much , everyone is secretly talking
To the opposite sex, but the one thing everyone needs to realize is if someone is cheating on you , that is 100 percent their fault , never blame
Yourself for their actions , They are the one’s that have issues and they will suffer to consequences of their actions , Cheating is a selfish act period if someone can cheat on you, let the other person have them because they are doing you a favor , helping you move on and find someone better , I know it sucks to be cheated on and having your heart shit on I have experienced it as well , Even though being cheated on damaged my perception of females it also helped me in the long run to know what I am looking for now , for me
To commit to someone they have to prove to me they value me and only want me , if they like the convenience of me it won’t last long , When it comes to trust , trust in yourself , value yourself worth , and realize You deserve someone that is going to avoid temptations like you do , someone that only has eyes
For you , A cheater will pick out every simple flaw in you to make themselves feel that their actions are justified, because they know they are the piece of shit

[Finchie40]

Bottom line if someone can cheat on you then they don’t deserve you , never take a cheater back into your life , you can still love someone without being with them , Someone that truly loves you isn’t going to cheat on you so why waste
Your time with someone that only likes the convenience of you? If
I cheat on a girl that is my answer
That I don’t truly love her and I will end
The relationship with her
Right then and there , i cheated one time
When I was younger and that was my answer to never do that again to someone , i felt like the biggest piece of shit because I was a piece of shit , so I confessed to her immediately and told her she deserves someone better , Shockingly she still wanted to stay with me but I convinced her not to because I already broke the trust between us from me being a piece of shit. The problem I see in most relationships today is most people can’t be honest , most people can’t admit to themselves that they are wrong , always pointing fingers at someone else to make themselves feel better about themselves, by living that way they will never experience true love , If you can’t love yourself and trust yourself and accept who you are how is someone else going to love and trust you for who you really are? You are just living a lie and wasting your time, Keeping secrets from each other just makes you more of a piece of shit , if you like living that way and being selfish just understand you are going to keep going down the same path of never experiencing true love , removing selfishness and avoiding temptations and prioritizing each other and wearing each others shoes before making decisions and understanding you can’t always be right is the only way love will grow with someone , if you can’t do those things for your partner they won’t be able to do that for you

[Nash62826]

o but it's something I have to do in order to not jump to conclusions and hyperventilate. For my own mental health. If u don't Trust them is it really a relationship sounds more like keeping an eye on the enemy.

[bean2k21]

I've given this advice before and I'll give it again. Get that word "cheating" out of your head. Every man on the planet has a penis. A girl can pleasure herself with a plastic one, so what's the damn difference if she does it with a real one? You've convinced yourself that these actions are horrible because you are conditioned to believe this. The reality is, you evolved from apes that became furious when their DNA was threatened by their female interest having sex with someone else. Don't be an ape.

[Anonymous]

I don't fully trust ANYONE so the short answer is "no". But to answer your question fully, to have a relationship you have to be able to trust them. So I trust her, but I always remember she's a woman. Just like a pet you must always remember they're capable of going rogue and biting you.

[NerdInDenial]

You can’t fully trust anyone:

[tfan1]

Yes I can. My wife is Chinese and she looks at cooking vids on tick-tock. She also talks to her family and friends in China and doesn’t care about Facebook. 👍🙂

[Sasha0426]

Don’t be in a relationship if you can’t trust your partner. Also, if you can’t handle them going to work, I hope you’re willing to pay all the bills. If you don’t want them to have friends, I hope you don’t mind your partner being around you 24/7. That’ll drive you insane fast. As for social media, you better delete every social app you have as well.

[jshm2]

Yes. If you're a fuckwit with both eyes shut, you'll get into a relationship with just about anyone.

This is why most relationships fail. These fuckers watch too much Hollywood shit, and think life and people are that easy.

[Anonymous]

I trust my current partner completely. She is a good person with a good heart and sound mind.

That has not always been the case with past partners. I dated a girl for two years who became increasingly toxic and weird. When I broke up with her she told me she was pregnant to try to get me to stay with her. When I demonstrated how that was not possible she said she would accuse me of rape, and that's exactly what she did. That was two days of terror for me.

[MovieManiac]

I'm sorry to hear that, man. Some people are really terrible, gosh.
How did it end? Did people realize she was lying?

[Opinion Owner]

@MovieManiac Thanks man. It ended ok because the detectives poked holes in her story right away and she couldn't hold up to their questioning and bailed.

[NathanDavis]

I always have, did... and it was never an issue whatsoever

social media has never been part of any of my relationships, we didn't even have them

[melanieeeB]

I wouldn't be with someone if I didn't trust them. For me any relationship/friendship etc has to be built on trust, respect and love.

[inhua]

the only person I fully trust in is myself. the only person who truly has your back is yourself.

[DancingQueen16]

I know I can trust my boyfriend Alex because I've known him since I was 11 years old and he is one of the sweetest, kindest and most loyal people I've ever known

[Chazmatazz269]

If you can’t trust them, then they shouldn’t be your partner. End of story.

[DoctorSex]

It all depends on her personality type.

Kind regards,

[Phoenix98]

Single atm but generally I won’t be in a relationship with someone I don’t fully trust.

[es20490446e]

There are people of all kinds. I only deal with the dependably kind.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Holy shit you're overthinking the magnitude of trust. If you believe all that, than a relationship is not for you.

[OddBeMe]

No, damaged relationships are between you. Not caused by social media.

[Agape93]

Yeap, I trust them. One I trust with my life

[DevinAM]

I don't have one rn 😢 I've been talking to someone where it might go somewhere but no guarantees.

[Owasso]

Today? This era? In a Westernized nation? No. Absolutely not. The culture of Western countries doesn't encourage, nor reward, responsible behavior.

[TroyDT2]

I do not fully trust anyone.

[Anonymous]

You can't fully trust any man.

[Sasha0426]

Best to not date then.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes. I'm all in til shown otherwise.

[SaoirseS]

Yes, I do.

[Finchie40]

What helps you not think of the worst

[SaoirseS]

Not spending too much time on the internet for starters. We married for love, with a commitment to monogamy. Neither of us has what we would call an extensive dating or romantic past, and we were highly selective in those we dated. Our trust in each other is total, and we have not given the other any reason for distrust.

[LazerBean]

Yes, I do.

[Finchie40]

What helps you not think of the worst

[LazerBean]

It help if the person already has an incredible reputation, is from a family of good reputation, and has always been against promiscuity of all types to begin with.

[Finchie40]

Awesome, I love that answer 😋

[Anonymous]

No that's why I have side chick

[Finchie40]

Does your side chick know you are with someone else?

[Opinion Owner]

No and not planning to tell her

[Finchie40]

Then my man you are going to have to end it with your wife , If you truly loved her you wouldn’t be cheating on her , The thing is man you are only hurting yourself by staying with someone that you truly don’t love and trust , I know you are thinking you have the best of both worlds but when push comes to shove you really don’t , if Your wife Finds out you are cheating she is going to take everything you invested into that relationship and you will be left without a pot to piss in , Also if you truly loved her you would let her go so she can find true love , By you sticking your dick into another girl you are putting
Your wife at rush of catching STD’s , Be a better man and realize you deserve someone that won’t make you feel insecure

[Anonymous]

No but it’s ok. We all have secrets.

[Sasha0426]

Even you?

[KrakenAttackin]

Never, ever.