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Why is it such a requirement for so many men to have a partner who wants kids? (Page 3)
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hmmm... a baby incubator... is that how you see your mom as?
Biologically woman's main purpose is to be a mom, lacking maternal instinct is unfeminine.
Calm down, you are scared of rearing a child. Look you should not think of it as a bad thing or as a baby incubator. Your husband will help with it too. So don't worry about it
If a dude says he's on the fence, that means he's a go-with-the-flow kind of guy and he'll generally be open to whatever his wife wants to do.
So you don't have to worry about that.
If you don’t want kids and to make sure that doesn’t happen then you might want to get tubal ligation aka getting your tubes tied.
It would seal her fate with most men, and she might change her mind about children.
Simple answer just the men you’re dating. Maybe expand what you’re looking for. There’s plenty of men that already have or don’t want kids.
I'm sterile so my problem is the opposite. The women close to my age all seem to want to start families.
you're not alone there Lady. I have the same problem but with the girls wanting kids. Seems like for us we have to go through additional vetting to get what we want.
I like money and loyalty as much as you do.
We’re out there. Guess it’s just like finding a girl that wants commitment without kids, few and far between
Wow. this is the most manipulative shit I have read in a while, lol...
"I'm just struggling with the fact I may not find someone that wants ME as a person. And not just me as their future baby incubator. It's wearing me down. "
I agree. It's sickening.
@A_Bell " You wanting a family is valid but just know that you're also a piece of shit" 🤣
That explains all the corn.
Feminism is insane, so don't be surprised by that, childless women tend to be selfish.
@A_Bell hey I feel the same as her and iv seen couples who have kids and had bad divorces along with there kids. I just believe a partner is much more important and sometimes when you get old its your spouse who takes care of you and your kids don't. At the end of the day it your partner who you can truly talk to than rather your kids, friends or siblings.
@HoneyButterCup525 you partner should definitely be your focus. Kids need to leave the nest and fly and achieve their own destiny.
My issue was how the OP treats biologically typical women as meer breeding machines and men as subsurvient to her desires.
Because the men you're interested in either don't gave kids or don't have a child of a specific gender they've been wanting. What you posted isn't true to all men.
Honestly I’m seeing so many couples refusing to walk that plank. So maybe it’s your bubble. Are you religious, or in a religious community? They push kids in order to keep the con going.
Because if one couple doesn't want kids, then another one has to have more than average kids to balance it.
Yea, and if her parents don't have other kids then she basically doomed her family.
Isn't it obvious? Men that selected a spouse that didn't want kids didn't pass on their genes.
Yea and don't pass natural selection, not wanting ruins families, it's sure not normal.
No idea, I don't want kids either. I think a lot of men and women want them and its something that I also run into problems with when dating.
Because why even bother being in a relationship? We can just bang girls left and right, relationship is primarily about kids to make a family.
Yea, there is no much point committing to a girl who don't want to give a guy children.
You might have better luck with divorced guys who have already had kids and don’t want more.
Yea such a guy is more likely to accept her, unless she is going to hate his kids as well.
because of the biological drive to procreate. If you dont like it, dont date. Absolutely do not expect men to change for you.
I feel you, but a lot of women want kids too. I was lucky that my girlfriend didn't.
i don’t want kids either 🤷♂️ there’s more guys that don’t want them than you think