What in the world should I do?

[DiegoO]

I can't even find a girlfriend in real life. The closest thing to it was a girl I new, online. It was a LDR.

I'm starting to feel more frustrated. It seems that nothing in my life gives me space to develop a healthy romantic relationship, or even a sexual life, without attachment.

The one time I had sex was a disaster, the one time I had a romantic relation, was a disaster 😔

It has came to a point where I don't even have the motivation of seeking for a relationship. I don't even care that much, why should I? I was thinking on leaving online interactions, but, for what?

⚠️CONTEXT

My dad ruin my economical future. He committed fraud and has the family in the verge of becoming poorer.

Unfortunately, in my country there's no human rights, which means that the legal system is completely corrupt. My point: we can't legally take him out the house!

[menina]

Your situation is really complicated. I understand your concerns about your mother and you're right, you shouldn't leave her alone.

The best option for you would be either leaving Nicaragua or finding a girlfriend in real life.

I know it's hard but trust me, your life will get better.

[DiegoO]

Nevermind, I am better off alone.

[menina]

I'm sorry you feel this way.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Dont worry my brother. Everything will be solved soon or later.. And about the love, the correct person will come to you.

All those break ups are just a test to get you ready when you get even older and perhaps have a longer relationship to marriage. Think it that way. 🙃

[DiegoO]

Well, I just had one, technically. The online interactions I usually have, are mainly sexual.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you considered fleeing Nicaragua?

[DiegoO]

I wanted to do that long ago, but I am not gonna do that now. My mom needs me. Her health improved, but she can't live by herself.

[OlderAndWiser]

Can you take her with you? I don't see how anyone could feel optimistic about their future in Nicaragua.

[DiegoO]

I can't because, even though things are wreck here, she has access to important medications she needs (natural and conventional).

[Jamie05rhs]

It's okay, bro. You don't have to feel bad. A lot of people are staying single this days.
I am sorry, though. I know it's rough.

[Anonymous]

ldr is stupid thing

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Take that anymous mask off and say it again, i dare you. 😏

[Opinion Owner]

@__MisterGoneShiner__ what would you do if I take off my mask 😏

[DiegoO]

Indeed, but I really did believe I was gonna see her person.

[DiegoO]

in person***

[Opinion Owner]

see her? when? tomorrow? next month? next year?

and you that little guy, you won't be able to punch me , I'm not that weak. I think you are tempted to punch me just because you're unable to get one in real life

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Eh, close enough. Got outta a toxic relationship, she had mental problems and was suicidal.

Unlike you, little girl, i can get girlfriends.

[DiegoO]

That was like 5 years ago, since the relation ended. Focus on the question, I am not gonna talking about that failed relationship.

[Opinion Owner]

little guy, I'm fine having no guy rather than have a cheater and, toxic relationship.

Diego, I'm focusing on your question. ldr is stupid thing, that would make you crave for sexual thing and leading to sexual tension. that's not healthy. plus having family problem is another add-on.. you would be crazy soon thinking so many problems. I suggest ditch that ldr thing. it's not like you or her going to get a flight ticket on tomorrow.

[Opinion Owner]

what the hell? I'm telling the truth!

[Opinion Owner]

chance to work it out is only 10%. either the girl or guy are sweet talking

[DiegoO]

Did you read me? 😐. That was the only LDR. I didn't had anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

so you're now single?

[DiegoO]

Well, yeah

[Opinion Owner]

I hope everything will be going well , able to solve your family problem and get a girlfriend in real life 😊 maybe now you should figure out more on how to make him leave the house and other key be patient. to be honest, my favourite uncle was like your dad..

[DiegoO]

Geez, I don't wish to anyone, a dad, or an uncle—like in your case—capable of ripping apart their own family.

[Opinion Owner]

yea. ripping apart the family, somehow they're still together, they kept moving from one place to another. the sons got their own career and their own life. they just do their own thing and doesn't bother what their father did and doesn't help the father, somehow , my uncle moved to his son's place. and he seems no longer make any problems, just now having a huge debt. people who chase him, lost track. he's like Leonardo DiCaprio in catch me if you can. lmao. I miss him tho.