Girls are right to reject me. I am completely bat shit crazy. What can I do?

[Anonymous]

I am weird. I say weird shit. I act weirdly. My perception of myself is completely clouded. I act different every day. I feel like different people. I have a hard time connecting with most people because they think I am crazy. but they are right I am a complete loon. I'm not mad at them the problem is with me. I'm more upset at myself but that is also foolish since I cannot change myself. I have been trying to change myself for several years. but it's a task that is foolish because at my core I cannot change who I am. I am completely crazy with major mental health problems. I feel like it's impossible to find a person to spend my life with. never had a girlfriend. always have done hookups. until the girl realizes I'm a broken human and leaves.

[Izzy_3991]

I'd say medicine and therapy would be a great help.


You are aware of your mental health issues, that is a great start. You aren't crazy because you are self-aware.


If I may ask, what mental health issues do you have? Please, don't feel pressured to answer. I am just curious because I also am mentally ill. I suffer from OCD. It has been an uphill battle to get where I am today 😅

[Asker]

Bpd, Aspergers, ADHD, and my parents are bipolar so I feel like I might have that as well.

[Izzy_3991]

Oh OK 😄
As you know, forming relationships will be a bit tricky with Aspergers. However, I knew a girl once who was in a relationship despite having Asperger's. I think you just need to find that special someone who is kind and patient 😄
My younger sister has BPD (and maybe ADHD?). She's only 20 at the moment, so the feelings are pretty new to her. She seeks therapy for her BPD. It has been a great help to her. She will always struggle but she can identify what emotion she is feeling and then tackle it.
Along with BPD, she also has bipolar, as does my elder sister have bipolar too.
They are both medicated for it but still show the manic episode here and there but medicine helps them 😄

Keep your chin up, time and life experience do help these matters. You are still very young and your brain is still developing. Seeking professional help, trial and error, and patience is the biggest key here 😄

[Sour-rose]

Soooo... is it cold where you are yet or still warm?

[Guy13]

Psychologist and/or psychiatrist.

[Fanfare690]

Therapy helped change me for the better.