Everyone I know is on birth control for various reasons beyond controlling pregnancy. Control of hormones has been found very useful. It’s very common to use for cancer control too.
No. But most girls don't use that stuff and most girls don't like any kind of protection for sex. My girlfriend has never used birth control and never will. The girl we have threesomes with doesn't use birth control. The last few girls I had ONS didn't use birth control. I think it's just not an attractive option for most women to use as well as it's becoming more known it changes your personality and increases depression issues and things like that.
Umm no. By mid 20s you would assume most girls (and guys) have had sex, and birth control isn’t really meant to start and stop all the time. Why would I care?
i have super heavy periods where i vomit and can barely get up some days so i'm going to be put on birth control. It doesn't mean she fucks everyone, it could be for a million other things
Most sensible women always realize themselves so maybe to avoid future problems en having to raise a kid alone, they instead prevent and am sure if u make ur intentions of having kids en loving her, she can stop
I would pursue her a little more for the obvious reason. If she is on the pill she is probably putting out and without a condom-what more could I ask for?
This would save a lot of head aches. It would. People can always always do the 4 things. Abstinence, aka not fucking. Two, tubes tied, or vasectomy. Three rubbers. 4 keeping the Child.
Butt hurt vegans argue that Pro Lifers are what? Virtue Signaling? At the same time Pro Choicers are not wanting to eat tasty animals. We must have no kill shelters for their cats and dogs. Believe me, we do indeed have no kill shelters for HUMAN BEINGS. Human Beings are for more worthy of our times.
But they want to cry about their Bodies. Your body isn't yours when you have a living being presiding. The Libtards want their lawyers and attorney's to get their Baby Daddy money when the Baby Daddy can simply say, I don't want that shit!!!
Amenorrhea doesn’t always mean not fertile. It seems to be a sign that something else is wrong that was perhaps masked by the hormonal contraceptives. But it also sounds like she was only taking the active pills all month, instead of allowing her body to naturally have a period with a week of the placebo pills.
There are non-hormonal methods like the copper IUD and condoms.
Yes, the hormonal IUD (like the Mirena brand) can cause periods to stop, although mine never really stopped, they just got shortened. The copper IUD has zero hormones in it, it’s literally just copper wire that changes the acidity of the uterine environment, killing sperm. It doesn’t stop ovulation or periods at all because there’s no medication in it. I realize the question is not about condoms, but your issue seems to be with the hormonal/medicated methods of contraception so I just mentioned methods that contain no hormones at all. Other ones are diaphragms/cervical caps, or sponges, used with spermicidal gels - but those are going out of favour because of the increased negative health risks associated with the gel.
And yeah, of course. If there’s no medication in the contraception, then it’s non hormonal and therefore there are no other benefits. Hormonal methods are prescribed as treatment and management of things like PMDD, dysmenorrhea, hemorrhaging, endometriosis, fibroids, PCOS (where the female hormones override the effects of testosterone producing cysts), etc.
I never said it didn’t. All medications have side effects. Pretty much anything you put into your body that isn’t natural has a side effect. If the side effects outweigh the benefits for someone, then there’s no point for them to be taking a medication including birth control pills.
Someone being on birth control pills or using other methods doesn’t mean they have a lack of will to have kids. Where did that idea come from? That sounds like something that used to be told to me in church, honestly. If someone isn’t ready to have a baby yet, but they don’t want to use contraception of any kind including condoms, there’s always abstinence.
@musicbrain5 If someone doesn't want to have kids than he or she should not have sex as all contraceptions can fail. Even if you have pills/ condom you can still get pregnant.
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Everyone I know is on birth control for various reasons beyond controlling pregnancy. Control of hormones has been found very useful. It’s very common to use for cancer control too.
No. But most girls don't use that stuff and most girls don't like any kind of protection for sex. My girlfriend has never used birth control and never will. The girl we have threesomes with doesn't use birth control. The last few girls I had ONS didn't use birth control. I think it's just not an attractive option for most women to use as well as it's becoming more known it changes your personality and increases depression issues and things like that.
There are other reasons to use bc. Just ask her if she’s seeing someone.
Umm no. By mid 20s you would assume most girls (and guys) have had sex, and birth control isn’t really meant to start and stop all the time. Why would I care?
I mean, do you want women to stop taking birth control and have period complications or get pregnant?
i have super heavy periods where i vomit and can barely get up some days so i'm going to be put on birth control. It doesn't mean she fucks everyone, it could be for a million other things
If you're judging a woman solely based on her use of birth control, says more about you than about her.
Most sensible women always realize themselves so maybe to avoid future problems en having to raise a kid alone, they instead prevent and am sure if u make ur intentions of having kids en loving her, she can stop
It's a smart decision
Remember guys who call single mom careless?
@anon1903 thnx
@anon1903 then they don't understand why we are born alone
Women are such mysteries (not)
I would pursue her a little more for the obvious reason. If she is on the pill she is probably putting out and without a condom-what more could I ask for?
No, I believe ladies should be on the pill to protect them all away around, and I support them 100%.
"but this is not the norm in most cases"
You couldn't be more uniformed about birth control. Try going back to sex ed in 6th grade.
I think having casual flings is bad for both men and women. I would not pursue anything with her/him.
Of course not. Would you stop seeing her if she demanded you provide her with Negative STD results? It's upon everyone to be smart.
This would save a lot of head aches. It would. People can always always do the 4 things. Abstinence, aka not fucking. Two, tubes tied, or vasectomy. Three rubbers. 4 keeping the Child.
Butt hurt vegans argue that Pro Lifers are what? Virtue Signaling? At the same time Pro Choicers are not wanting to eat tasty animals. We must have no kill shelters for their cats and dogs. Believe me, we do indeed have no kill shelters for HUMAN BEINGS. Human Beings are for more worthy of our times.
But they want to cry about their Bodies. Your body isn't yours when you have a living being presiding. The Libtards want their lawyers and attorney's to get their Baby Daddy money when the Baby Daddy can simply say, I don't want that shit!!!
The WOMAN wants it right? Congratulations. Don't expect the Man to fork over money.
It's his wallet, his choice.
Id drop a guy faster than a hot potato if he had that mentality LMAO
It would mean there was a good chance I would get some.so no.
I assume nothing. One of my friends has been on birth control since she was 15 in order to regulate her insane periods.
No, nor do I assume such things. It is not my business if they do, anyways.
I take birth control sometimes because since covid vaccine I bleed up to 1 month
I plan to have children, so that would be a red flag.
How? She can just get off of it when you’re both ready to have children.
@musicbrain5 It may take a lot of time for fertility to return.
There's one woman I know that stopped taking pills a year ago and still hasn't got her period back (and before it her periods were regular).
Amenorrhea doesn’t always mean not fertile. It seems to be a sign that something else is wrong that was perhaps masked by the hormonal contraceptives. But it also sounds like she was only taking the active pills all month, instead of allowing her body to naturally have a period with a week of the placebo pills.
There are non-hormonal methods like the copper IUD and condoms.
@musicbrain5 IUD also can cause lack of periods.
And this question is not about condoms.
@musicbrain5 And if it doesn;t have hormones then the argument that it can be used for other reasons than for not having kids is no use.
Yes, the hormonal IUD (like the Mirena brand) can cause periods to stop, although mine never really stopped, they just got shortened. The copper IUD has zero hormones in it, it’s literally just copper wire that changes the acidity of the uterine environment, killing sperm. It doesn’t stop ovulation or periods at all because there’s no medication in it. I realize the question is not about condoms, but your issue seems to be with the hormonal/medicated methods of contraception so I just mentioned methods that contain no hormones at all. Other ones are diaphragms/cervical caps, or sponges, used with spermicidal gels - but those are going out of favour because of the increased negative health risks associated with the gel.
And yeah, of course. If there’s no medication in the contraception, then it’s non hormonal and therefore there are no other benefits. Hormonal methods are prescribed as treatment and management of things like PMDD, dysmenorrhea, hemorrhaging, endometriosis, fibroids, PCOS (where the female hormones override the effects of testosterone producing cysts), etc.
@musicbrain5 Still, it causes side effects.
And yes - condoms are better as they do not alter the body in any way. Here the only issue is with the lack of will to have kids.
I never said it didn’t. All medications have side effects. Pretty much anything you put into your body that isn’t natural has a side effect. If the side effects outweigh the benefits for someone, then there’s no point for them to be taking a medication including birth control pills.
Someone being on birth control pills or using other methods doesn’t mean they have a lack of will to have kids. Where did that idea come from? That sounds like something that used to be told to me in church, honestly. If someone isn’t ready to have a baby yet, but they don’t want to use contraception of any kind including condoms, there’s always abstinence.
@musicbrain5 If someone doesn't want to have kids than he or she should not have sex as all contraceptions can fail. Even if you have pills/ condom you can still get pregnant.
I never said contraception is 100% effective.
No, it's not something I care about or even think about it.