Don't know if it's conspiracy of people saying "I told you you shouldn't have lived together before getting married" but I don't believe so. I would still do it next time I get to be with someone. If people can have roommates, then why not lovers as roommates too? ! I'm 38, not BORN in 1938! I am not old fashioned and I am proud to say/think that I still think it is a good idea to see how two people can mesh well especially life, together.
Oh and I think I did it back then (in my early 30's), mostly because I was still a bit immature and more sponteneous, not to mention more sexually driven! Obviously now, I still crave that but since I am single (and will probably have children alone/ on my own, we'll see), I still think things will work out for me.
I think though , yeah, I'd take it slow and really try to access who you are dealing with, ESPECIALLY when it comes to who you are going to marry or become your life partner. It can only benefit you. Good luck.
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I can't imagine feeling that connected to a woman after such a short time, no!
Please don't do it. I have done it twice.
May I ask how long did it last and what was the motivating factor to do so?
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12 years, awesome sex
Its maddening to hear thats the only reason, I would be bored senseless if that was the only good thing about the relationship
Yep. I was veing used.
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I did and it was an interesting experience.
May I ask if your still together and/or how long did it last if not?
Sure.
3 to 4 months.
No, unfortunately not.
Don't know if it's conspiracy of people saying "I told you you shouldn't have lived together before getting married" but I don't believe so. I would still do it next time I get to be with someone. If people can have roommates, then why not lovers as roommates too? ! I'm 38, not BORN in 1938! I am not old fashioned and I am proud to say/think that I still think it is a good idea to see how two people can mesh well especially life, together.
Oh and I think I did it back then (in my early 30's), mostly because I was still a bit immature and more sponteneous, not to mention more sexually driven! Obviously now, I still crave that but since I am single (and will probably have children alone/ on my own, we'll see), I still think things will work out for me.
I think though , yeah, I'd take it slow and really try to access who you are dealing with, ESPECIALLY when it comes to who you are going to marry or become your life partner. It can only benefit you. Good luck.
That is way too soon bro
Not without some contingencies
No, only crazy people do this
No way I'd have to get to know them first
Yes. I’m that reckless and delusional.
Why would you feel such a move to be to be reckless?
I’d rather live with a strange friend than reside with my folks.
No, I think 4 months would be the minimum.
Not really. That's way to soon.
That’s a little bit too early
Absolutely.
Why so if I may ask?
I would need to get to know them better.
Need a year or more.
Fuck no!
Never
absolutely not
Maybe
No wtf🤣