Will you be taking back that toxic ex this year?

[coachTanthony]

[Anonymous]

Ewwww... I hope not.

Well, ok... in a hypothetical situation, it's possible. But let's just say there's over a 99ish% chance that it wouldn't happen (you know, never say never, but...).

She would have to somehow PROVE that she's legitimately changed, and that it wasn't all a brand new change. I mean, I would have to ask around (we do have mutual friends in common). She would have to have lost weight, gotten on her meds and have them showing that they work for some time. She'd have to be have gotten (and KEPT) a decent job for more than six months, and have had a good history of not getting fired from any past job. She'd have to have her own place for more than three months. She'd have to have an amazing reputation that she's actually worked on herself. She'd also have to be in therapy. AND I'd have to be absolutely convinced that I did not want children at all. I'd also have to be ok with occasional mood swings or issues if her meds DIDN'T work for some reason (at least on occasion). She would have had to have had a 180 degree change, and not JUST due to meds, and I'd have to be completely convinced that the change was real and would stick - if all this happened... THEN I might consider it.

But, I am going through some things that would make dating complicated, and this will probably happen for the next six months. That's in an ideal situation, where the woman is great, and most things would work, it'd still be difficult enough to have to think about it instead of just jumping in.

[Guy13]

Not unless she not acts me but this is highly unlikely. She’s happily moved on with that surgeon until he discovered that she left me. “Karma” is a B- as he dropped her like a hot potato 🥔 🔥

[red324]

Because she left you? Were you and the surgeon friends?

[RavVid]

@red324 I was curious about that too.

[red324]

@RavVid if y'all were friends?

[RavVid]

@red324 It would be awkward. Asker might miss him.

[Guy13]

I got cheated on to answer your question. I eventually met the neurosurgeon. He said later to my Ex when she said Later to me. Surgeon simply wanted a safety deposit box... he had no desire of removing said box from the Post Office.
It is funny "now"... I see him at the gym couple times a month.

[Cuminginside]

So nobody wins

[Guy13]

@Cuminginside Exactly but better in that situation than married etc... I won !!

[Cathy7734]

I was best friends with my roommate. I was 18 and she was 21.

She married a wealthy man and moved to MN. We lived in southern CA.

She is getting a divorce and wants to move back to southern CA.

However, our relationship changed in the sense that she is completely closed about her personal life. She will ask me personal questions but gets upset if I ask her anything.

In our last conversation, I asked her if she still plans to move back to southern CA. She said, "I feel uncomfortable telling you anything about my future plans."

My Mom said she has a toxic personality. But I don't know. Maybe she just needs someone to understand her.

If she asks to be my roommate I might let her. My Mom said I'm crazy and heading for trouble.

[Cuminginside]

Your mom is right your ex-friend is up to no good you are probably a safety option to her. Let grow up on her own. I have family like that and I despise them.

[red324]

Probably too cold in MN. Lol or he abused her.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Wasn’t an ex, more a “supposed to be friend” but that would be a hell no… a toxic friendship is just as bad as a toxic intimate relationship… life too short to waste on toxic people…

[OlderAndWiser]

Been there, done that (many years ago,) and learned that lesson!

[Bethany22]

Nope, I was just thinking about how I'm going to forget about him actually.

[Chazmatazz269]

I wouldn’t even take back the ones that aren’t toxic. I learned that each thing, and each person has their time. Whatever the reason it didn’t work out, their time has passed. The efforts that go into trying to squeeze a square peg into a round hole are themselves “toxic”, not to mention the compulsion to “turn back time”.

[TheFlak38]

Only if she had a great ass.

[coachTanthony]

Classic scene

[MrOracle]

It appears that your head is all the way up it!

[coachTanthony]

@MrOracle ha ha ha

[Cuminginside]

This new year startup depressing I needed that laugh golly I can hear his voice in my head and I don't hear voices.

[AsaKyo]

Why tf would you take someone like that back? 😂

[coachTanthony]

Because you're desperate, lonely have no self worth. It happens all the time lol

[AsaKyo]

Damn, that's crazy lmao

[Anemone978]

Since my prospects aren't looking good... yeah I might, I am feeling mighty lonely lol

[Guardian45]

DON'T DO IT!

[AmeerX]

Wait a minute. Did you say you could easily get a guy 🙄. Why settle for an ex you have your guy friend anemone978

[Anemone978]

@AmeerX I said I can easily get sex or dudes who want to have sex, I never said I can get a guy... I don't want just sex I would want a boyfriend or a partner. And I'm never gonna have sex with that friend by the way, he is only interested in sex. Its just easier to settle for someone you already know how they are, even if how the are is horrible because you know how to put up with it.

[AmeerX]

Oh sad to hear that. I know you are still attractive and may be able to find a guy to marry you through those brides agencies. Actually I will write a my take about it since a lot of girls here complaint not having a marriage and no luck in online dating sites.
In fact it was surprising because I thought a lot of girls might have known about them 👀

[Guardian45]

Like I said above, DON'T DO IT! You'll SURELY regret it later!

[Andres77]

Taking back an ex is like taking a shower and putting on your dirty underwear again.

[Sour-rose]

All my exes are dead at this point. All of them were high school flings and now a days, there's no one besides me. Just how I like it.

[KaiidiraX]

Not sure why I would. He's been gone for a long time.

[Gopackers02]

Absolutely not, she was extremely toxic and the relationship was on and off like 3 times previously. But now that it’s 2023 I’m glad to leave that in the past

[Cuminginside]

You gave her three chances oh hell no.

[Gopackers02]

I know back then it’s because I felt bad but now looking back I saw I shouldn’t have

[Cuminginside]

Well at least you realize it now That's the important thing

[CateM]

I don't have an ex to take back, let alone a toxic ex

[Cuminginside]

Slowly clap clap clap.

[IveGotNoName]

I don't have an ex, but hopefully I wouldn't do that if I did xD

[FallonSamuels]

Not a chance. He has been blocked in all social platforms for 5 years now

[ariadneR]

Oh hell no, he can stay where he is, in the past

[Lionman95]

Taking back a toxic person doesn´t sound like a good deal to me. So the answer is no. I think it would be better for the other person to accept that we don´t fit than trying to get back with me.

[Anonymous]

I rather date a trans girl.

[ElizaPam]

We're the best!!!

[Opinion Owner]

@ElizaPam Let's not put each side above the other.

[Redhead1981]

No! Thank you! I don't need to go through that again. Time to move on.

[Rosexøxø]

If Ik know ANY toxic people I hope I excuse myself from their circles, and make a suitable one for myself.

[Cuminginside]

Yeah no kidding.

[Rosexøxø]

@Cuminginside lmao it’s a vibe 😂👐

[Cuminginside]

Sometimes a vibe is the only warning you get between living and facing judgment.

[Rosexøxø]

@Cuminginside yeah to those who believe in that sort of shiz lol

[Cuminginside]

The way things are going you better believe in something.

[Rosexøxø]

@Cuminginside lol I don’t believe in facts I know or don’t know in the facts. That’s all it is for me.

But you can give that

“You better believe but to others.”

To people who identify more with that

Or like to be told what to believe 😬🤙

[rienna888]

Can’t even take him back cuz he didn’t ask :(

[nilex4185]

Nope , i m having one in my life right now she just broke up with me, but still needs me but it's mentally disturbing for me so finding a way to stay away from her ( though it hurts kinda i loved her i still have hope but can't stay hoping for her ) time for me to be happy.

[Sparkie460]

Nope. I'm married so I don't have any use for any of them

[Likes2drive]

Even if I wanted to she got married right after the divorce

[Cuminginside]

Funny how that works out so fast.

[Likes2drive]

@Cuminginside Yeah for women it seems to

[Cuminginside]

Yeah I know it's pretty disgusting but they think we're the pigs yeah okay.

[SnowedIn]

Thankfully not even a possibility! :)

[coachTanthony]

That's good to hear! Happy New Year Snow.

[SnowedIn]

And the same to you Coach!

[ArrowheadSW]

It has been quite a number of years since I had a toxic girlfriend. But no, no plans on taking them back anyway. LOL

[NathanDavis]

fortunately... never had toxic people in my life

besides that, don't think I would ever go back with an ex at this point

[MONKSKIN1]

Nope


I’ve found my high school sweetheart and we are so happy together

[Cuminginside]

Does she have her sister?

[Lynnfriend]

No. You can't fix others problems, you can only fix yours

[Cuminginside]

And for most people barely even that.

[midnightmoon05]

We did a couple of years back. Married now and very happy together.

[lifeamystery]

Never! Toxic love is not love. It's fake to the extreme. Love is an unconditional feel and toxic love is fake love.

[CrazyGirl2]

That would be my first boyfriend Mike, and NO!

[Mysticknght]

I would like to say no but I miss him a lot

[coachTanthony]

Don't do it. lol

[Mysticknght]

I'm gonna try not too 😁

[sheenagwapa]

i don't love my exanymore and he is married so if ever i won't

[hismave]

One more chance wouldn't hurt with a promise of change and an actual effort being put in, it should produce something good by Gods grace. Hope for the best.🙂

[Tina19]

I left my toxic ex in 2021 itself never going to take him back ever

[jorfan3]

Nope. I'm married!

[Lucy68]

This year no never

[kevypatyy7]

I am not willing to do that for a million dollars, no, never

[Iron_Man]

I’m done with my former girlfriend it’s been so many years

[Nikki1989]

Not this year, not any year.

[Guardian45]

My "Toxic Ex" is Whereabouts Unknown! Even if she wasn't, she is DEAD to me!

[Luopio27]

Never had relationships but never will i ever reach out to the toxic friends i left behind.

[LiamJHayden]

Never had a toxic one, but would not take one back if I had one.

[Jude_Wills]

What what what

[coachTanthony]

Don't do it lol

[HusamRocks]

Unless I decided to poison myself so nope 😅

[RavVid]

No way in hell.

[Angel_ica]

I for sure won't I'm not crazy

[Cuminginside]

Because they can make you crazy.

[Angel_ica]

@Cuminginside He makes me mad and go insane

[Cuminginside]

Yeah you're too young for that we don't want that to happen. Is there any way to make him crazy? Or is he already crazy?

[Angel_ica]

@Cuminginside He just is shit

[Cuminginside]

I wonder if anybody else has ever thrown dog s*** at his door?

[Angel_ica]

@Cuminginside No did not do that

[Cuminginside]

Well then you are a better person than I am that is for "shit" sure. Bhahaha

[ElizaPam]

No but we're still friends 😊

[sassyredhead]

Only if he changes and prioritizes me

[moonpie89]

Haha never. Not in contact with any exes

[poneglyphs]

Uhh, i don't have any exes? So no...

[Preeti161101]

Mine was not toxic

[Andres77]

Who dumped who? No disrespect intended. I'm just a snoop. If you don't want to answer that's fine.

[Anonymous]

Hell no. She can go fuck her new boyfriend. I don't even want to lose my virginity anymore

[Anonymous]

I think I maybe already did.

[Cuminginside]

Recognizing your problem is the start to fixing it.

[OddBeMe]

My cat will force herself into my life, unfort…

[Cuminginside]

Are U serious?

[mamuma02]

No!!

[TheAfrikan]

Once toxic always will be nah.

[bulldoglover3]

Probably...

Not

[bulldoglover3]

@JackHarthronwww No he broke up with me right before Christmas

[BullShark]

Nope. HELL no. Never in a million years.

[Agape93]

No force in this world would compel me to do that.