I broke up with my ex and he said he needs a few days to think about it, should I wait? I love him?

[Anonymous]

How do I get him back

[Guy13]

You broke up be he has not accepted the Conditions. Am I interpreting this correctly?

[Asker]

I don’t know if he has accepted them. I saw him in person after few days and he said that he was hurt and needed four days to think about it. And it’s been 6 days I don’t know if I should reach out or leave it

[Guy13]

You left him be, right... He should have contacted you or today if nothing else is going on...

[Asker]

Yeah I contacted him

[Asker]

Sigh I feel so stupid

[Asker]

I’m so scared to read his reply

[Guy13]

What did he say?

[Asker]

I’m scared to open it, I’ll let u know

[Summeroflove]

So you broke it off and now want him back? Well you should respect his wishes. You have nobody to blame but yourself after you’re the one who broke it off.


Wait a few days and see what he says.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s already been a few days but I still love him, wake up every night thinking about him. I’ll message to him soon

[Summeroflove]

Leave him be. You’re going to chase him off totally if you cross too many boundaries after he said he needed time.

[Asker]

He told me he needed 4 days, and it’s been four days. So is it okay if I message him?

[Summeroflove]

Then message him. As long as it’s a good time to text. If it’s 4 in the morning. Probably not a good time unless it’s a absolutely emergency

[Asker]

It’s reasonable that he doesn’t initiate at all after I broke up right

[Summeroflove]

Imitate what? Yeah I would assume probably so.

[Summeroflove]

*initiate

[Asker]

Yeah he has not initiated convo since we broke up

[Asker]

I don’t know if he means he’s not interested or he’s hurt

[Summeroflove]

Maybe both. Many people yeah after you break up. Why would they reach out?

[Summeroflove]

If you broke up with him. I don’t see any reason he would need to reach out honestly.

[Asker]

So he stopped liking me?

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. But seems he’s probably moving in like normal people. He probably feels rejected and hurt.

But if it’s been 4 days infusss reach out. His feeling are pretty normal though

[Asker]

Infuss?

[Summeroflove]

Don’t know what you’re taking about sorry

[Asker]

You said “But if it’s been 4 days infusss reach out”

[Asker]

But I loved him so much and our connection was amazing

[Summeroflove]

Oh it was a typo sorry. I guess is what I meant to say lol

[Summeroflove]

Then why did you break up? It must not have been all great.

It’s been 4 days so it would be reasonable to reach back out.

[spartan55]

I just read the reason you broke up with him... wow... and now of course you want a do-over. Seems like you haven't ever had to be accountable for anything.

[boggboss]

U love him and broke up with him but clearly want to be with him sorry what's wrong with u

[Asker]

I got paranoid that he might have someone. Since the messaging reduced and also he didn’t reply on weekends

[boggboss]

So how did u ending it help that situation now u want to get back with him but what will make that change

[Asker]

I was having obsessive thoughts.

[boggboss]

So u was having obsessive thoughts and instead of addressing that with him u ended things now hope he will take u back

[Asker]

Yeah 😭 it was a mistake

[Asker]

I did tell him to message me on weekends but he didn’t

[boggboss]

Why should he u needed things even if it was a mistake people don't want to have a partner that will throw the relationship away from a simple mistake

[ArtemisSilver]

You can't unscramble an egg. Sometimes you just have to take the consequences of your actions.

[jimmy2]

Just tell hi to ask him for forgiveness

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Asker]

What’s funny

[In_Trance]

Block him